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First time seeking treatment/support -- Super scared, fucked up big time

2020.11.20 10:42 SAAfdUPbigTIME First time seeking treatment/support -- Super scared, fucked up big time

EDIT: POSSIBLE TRIGGER WARNING
Really sorry for the long post, I've never opened up to anyone about this before.
I was kind of the ugly duckling in my mind for most of my early life. I've always been hypersexual, even as a child. I started finding ways to watch porn (the blurry channel), using limewire to download pornographic audio, I even kept a stash of classical art textbooks under my bed (like as a child) to check out the classical nude paintings, sculptures, etc.
High school I felt like a total loser, I did have a couple longterm girlfriends, but ended up losing my virginity to an older girl that honestly took advantage of me and really pressured me into it. The girl was unattractive, a lot of people in school found out, I felt the most embarrassment and shame and regret of my life (up till that point).
During college I had a couple long term relationships that I struggled with, mostly because I secretly wanted more extreme sexual experiences but didn't know how to tell my partners. Those relationships ended very badly, with me having a breakdown at the end of both, with my ex's both recommending therapy (I never took their advice).
After college, I moved to NYC; it was just as tinder, okcupid, etc was coming out, so about 2011. I felt a new wave of confidence, I was starting a good job, felt independent, and started feeling much more confident with my looks.
I started online dating, and started going on like 3 dates a week, messaging literally scores of girls maybe 100+ girls a week, sometimes going on one date after another in the same day. It didn't take long before my friends noticed, but it went from "okay player!" to "dude, you might have a problem" real quick. I was rarely seen on weekends or evenings. I was barely seen without my face buried in my phone, keeping up with multiple conversations with multiple girls every single day. I'd stay up late just swiping and searching, even if I was talking to someone attractive who I genuinely liked: I finally reached a point in my life where girls liked me and I felt desired and nothing else mattered in life... but I kept having like sudden breakdowns over how guilty I felt, I'd reach out to past partners and beg for forgiveness, blubbering. Looking back, that was like one long mental health episode, but I really didn't understand how to process it and properly deal with it.
So that went on for years. I did get tested regularly at the time, but was def super dishonest with every single girl I met, dated or slept with. Before NYC I had slept with a grand total of 3 people. After a few years in NYC, my total was somewhere in the 40s, and that's just counting intercourse.
After an STD scare, I had a breakdown and left NYC for good. I went through waves of shame and guilt and felt like I didn't know who I was.
I went on a few dates here and there, eventually met a girl who I dated for 4 years. I truly really really loved her. I cheated on her multiple times, was constantly talking to girls online during the relationship, and I never had the guts to tell her but I had a terrible inner struggle and dumped her without really telling her the honest reason why: I wanted to fuck everyone and physical love was more important for me that emotional love. I cannot believe that I threw her away like that after 4 years and neither could she.
After we broke up, I went back to dating, went back to sleeping with girls, but.... Way more recklessly. I'd invite girls over straight away, and if they wanted to grab a drink first, I'd just find someone different. I had zero patience and felt like I needed to make up for lost time (even though I cheated on my ex plenty). I got way into bdsm, ddlg, and had legit 12 dating apps running at the same time (I just deleted them all tonight, and it actually felt so nice that I cried). At some point my brother actually confronted me and told me I might have a problem. I actually for the first time verbally agreed, and started like teetering between having a breakdown and needing to go get laid.
So that was late last year, and not long after I start dating again, the pandemic hits. I start getting into multiple online relationships, lying to girls about what I want just to get some nude photos or flirting or omg just any positive attention. One online girl even said she loved me, and me being a total piece of shit, said I loved her too, which was not true. That actually really fucked me up inside, and I stopped the online relationships, but did continue sporadically trying to get girls attention briefly online.
As the pandemic went on, summer came around and restrictions loosened. I started going on in person dates again, having sex etc.
So, this one girl contacts me. I'm in my early 30s now. She's really cool and actually funny in a way that makes me laugh out loud, which is like never something that happens. She sends me photos and she's super cute, and then she drops a bombshell: she's 17, in high school and lives with her parents.
My first thought was "Well what's the age of consent in the state" which is 16. I briefly thought to myself that I should rethink this but my mind just absolutely pushed that down. All I thought about was capturing that feeling of being loved and desired, and especially after such a lonely quarantine, I really deluded myself into thinking that this was a totally okay course of action, just because of the fact that it was legal. And I genuinely thought this girl was cool, so we went for it, met up and had sex on a few occasions. It's so fucking embarrassing, but I actually develop feelings for her, ask her if she wants to like ya know date or whatever. She says yes at first, but like it's really clear soon that she's not into me, and also at the same time I was talking to someone else online, and felt like I was already preparing for her to not be into me.
So today she contacts me, says she's pregnant, told her family everything, and her family is making her keep the baby. They want to fucking murder me. I've never had any contact with them, and I'm so scared and disappointed and scared for her.
She's told me that she doesn't want me to be around to help raise the child, because she doesn't want to be with someone so old and doesn't want to cause rifts with her family. I feel like the biggest piece of shit on earth. I cried all day today. I've been shaking all day, and even threw up. I can't believe I ruined her life and I can't believe I'm helping to bring a fatherless child into this world. I'm so filled with shame and disappointment in myself and guilt.
All day I've been thinking how much I wish I just didn't exist. I was for sure contemplating shooting myself in my bathtub, but spoke with the suicide prevention hotline and that was really really such a huge help. That helped, but I sprung awake in the middle of the night and having been looking up mental health services, support groups, talking to hotlines for the past few hours.
I'm officially a terrible person and I just keep teetering between really bad thoughts and feeling like the smallest amount of peace from finally reaching out for help, which immediately makes me feel guilty again.
(I am still reaching out to the suicide prevention hotline, and do not think that there is currently a concern that I'll kill myself)
I'm just scared and I feel like my entire life has been structured around my sexual appetite and I just can't keep on living with years of repressed regret and guilt. It's been a decade now, and I obviously need to get help to stop hurting others because I can't stop on my own. But it's so embarrassing to talk about all this.
My heart is so heavy and I have ruined every relationship I've had over sex and I just can't believe this is really who I am.
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2020.11.19 12:15 Pankaj135 [RANT} My Horrible Experience with Acer India, their bullying and horrible after sales. (Advice needed)

Dear All,
On 25th of July this year I bought a laptop from official Acer India estore for 50k. I had to buy the laptop from their estore as I was not able to get the laptop with the specific configuration that I need from Flipkart or Amazon. Paid the full amount.
On 30th July I received the system and lo and behold there was a gapping in the bezel of the laptop. I turned on the system and the system used to crash while trying to go to sleep. I immediately called their helpline and they told me to email to register a case. The lady on the line suggested that there might be software issue and to update the drivers and created a case for the gapping in the bezel.
I immediately told them about their return policy which in clearly written on site that they should be informed about within 7 days of delivery. These guys refused to replace or refund me on my system. They said the system will be serviced. I sent them countless mails and calls and no one listened and they proceeded to fix the bezel of my laptop.
Meanwhile I had updated the system to the latest drivers and the issue of system crashing had not solved. The service center took the system and formatted it and told me the issue was solved. I checked and the issue was not solved. Their tech from somewhere in India even remoted and checked the system and saw that the system was updated.
In the meantime I stilled called support number and they said to get a DOA certificate from the service center, the service center blatantly refused as it "not their policy". Then I talked so some head in Delhi and he says that DOA can only be processed if its reported within 7 days of invoice date. WTF! the invoice date is 25 the date of order and 30th is the date of delivery, what kind of policy is that? But still their site states 7 days from delivery but these thieves are still not providing me with a replacement laptop.
To this day the system is with the service center and they call me saying that the system is fixed. When I remote and check via Anydesk, the system had crashed. It clearly is shown in Event Viewer.
Its been 4 months and nothing is still happening. I have put my grievance in National Consumer Helpline and no action has been taken. I bought a system to work on and these people took my money and I have nothing in return for 4 months. What gives? I had bought the machine with my 5 months stipend and these people have no heart!
These people are hell bent on giving me a defective and factory refurbished machine which it has become.
What should I do?
Advice for Shoppers, never buy electronics from dedicated brand stores. Always get from a online dealer like Flipkart Amazon etc or offline dealer, never a brand shop.
Update 1: Found e-mail & numbers of multiple people involved in Acer, called multiple persons. CEO's number was unavailable but sent him an e-mail. Automatic e-mail came he is out of office till 8th January 2021 next year and told me to contact his assistant for urgent matters. Sent to her. No response.
Next I sent mails to the highest authorities in the company and started calling people from top down to bottom. Head people didn't pick up my call. Regional Manager of North picked up the phone and acknowledged my issue and he said that he'll look in the matter. He said to wait till Monday for a promising update.
Next then during daytime I received a call from technical head of region and he's saying that he's asked the service center to send the machine to him and he'll fix it personally. He's offered me with a warranty extension of 4 months on the machine but is still is adamant to fix the machine.
TL;DR I'm still being bullied by the company. I am not getting my refund or replacement on my order.
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2020.11.18 21:14 mr_tyler_durden Notes and Highlights of Kentucky Governor Andy Beshear’s Live Update November 18, 2020

Notes and Highlights of Kentucky Governor Andy Beshear’s Live Update November 18, 2020
Notes by mr_tyler_durden and Daily Update Team
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2020.11.17 09:19 NewMathematician8335 Abusive narcissistic male dom- does this sound familiar? Should I warn the local BDSM community, and if so, how?


It's a long one, nothing too graphic.
I (30f) recently started chatting with a 28m on a dating website, conversation initiated by me. By all appearances, my dream guy: confident, charismatic sailor, overseas for work half the year, veteran, tall, well-travelled, thick dark beard and eyebrows, by his own words looking for a strong independent woman who can call him out on his BS. I'm thinking, yeah I can do that.
Background on me: somewhat new to the kink community but well versed enough to know the fundamentals of BDSM: free and informed consent, communication, and legality. I'm a switch with bratty tendencies. Abuse survivor.
Anyway, pretty early I start to get a bad feeling. Nothing obvious, just a growing sense the persona doesn't match the person behind it. Fuck the scale but for expediency he's a 9/10 and I'm a 6/7 on my best day and I made my dating profile deliberately nondescript to weed out superficial interest. Something's off about this guy. He's arrogant and presumptuous about my interest in him. I figure, typical 10. I start testing and teasing him pretty incessantly, subverting his dominance to see how he'll react. He appears to be a good sport but his responses are stiff (I later realized, veiled anger). After a couple weeks, he asks for my number (way too soon for me) and when I voice my reservations and allude to a history of trauma he instantly goes cold. By this point, all interaction via dating app and burner email.
I'm conflicted at this point and seek advice from friends/close female family. Single for the last 3 years, new to online dating, concerned that I might be projecting my history of abuse onto this person (how easy it is to assign connotation and tone to words on the screen). The consensus from my trusted circle is lighten up, go for it, take precautions but the odds are you're being paranoid and probably not talking to a serial kille rapist. At this early stage, I am genuinely concerned about both these possibilities and have a gut feeling that something just isn't right about this guy.
Best way to describe it is that I feel as though I'm being steadily reeled into a trap, manipulated, being told what I want to hear, almost like a learning computer program. Any personal info I offered seemed to get stashed away and the lure gets more personal and directed. Even so, I set aside my reservations and decide to take a leap figuring it would be pretty shitty and lonely to assume the literal worst of everyone I encounter for the rest of my life. I write him a long and revealing email sharing some of my fears and background, my decision to lighten up a bit, and apologize for being difficult. He responds to this lengthy emotional reveal with a hungry 'sure, what's your number?'
Bad feeling intensifies but I already decided to go for it. Continuing our sassy rapport via text, I say now he has to reveal something embarrassing to even the scales. His reveal is lame so I tell him to dig deeper and that there's a descriptive massage in it for him. He gets pissed, says he already earned one. It clicks for me: ok, I'm dealing with a selfish, entitled asshole. Emotional investment phase over. Possibility of meeting up in real world over. I'll sext with this dude for a while till he's ravenous then drop him for my own power trip. At this point, it's become clear to me this guy is an entitled, overconfident narcissistic prick. I enjoy demolishing powerful men and I'm smarter than him, so I figure this will be a satisfying topping-from-the-bottom deal. I know he wants power play so I give him a taste of what I think he wants to hear and he takes the bait hard. We shared a few kinks, he knows I'm a switch but it quickly becomes clear he wants a completely submissive partner dynamic, like slave-level. (nothing wrong with that as long as it's consensual for all parties! no kink shaming here. In our case, there was no communication or consent around this dynamic). From the moment we shared a brief intro of our kinks, his demeanor was instantly that of one in control. Easily and immediately giving orders, even though we hadn't talked about any parameters for our dynamic other than the fact that we're both kinky and have some overlap. I tease him with a gift: a lengthy detailed sensual massage with sub overtones. He responds with graphic facial abuse. Literally in this dude's mind, it is a gift to me to allow me to worship his cock. We've emailed back and forth for maybe two weeks at this point? Such an entitled prick! Zero respect for him as a person but I enjoy the fantasy so I let it play out.
Eventually we talk on the phone a couple of times, I mentioned having to fend of scary white supremacist/incel creeps on the dating app and he laughs, almost purring, asking me if that turned me on. Not only does he genuinely think I enjoy being afraid, he clearly gets off on my fear. Not fucking ok. This theme of deriving pleasure from my fear continues and intensifies subtly through time.
Fast forward a couple weeks and I start to realize I'm in over my head. I'm questioning my convictions, the red flags are piling up, yet I find myself actually thinking about meeting in person even though the voice inside is screaming RUNNN. I thought I was in control and the one manipulating him, but my power trip becomes a drug and I am acting like a full on junkie. I notice myself acting like an addict and start taking a deep dive on youtube watching videos on the psychology of narcissism. Eeeeverything clicks into place.
Here's the thing- I don't have concrete proof this guy is dangerous. There is absolutely plausible deniability. It's arguable that in his mind he thought I was enjoying what he described in his fantasies. Maybe he's really a newbie who watched 50 shades and just doesn't get it. I was drawing him out and playing along, after all, trying to get him comfortable enough to reveal his true self. But his detailed proclivities were not those of a newcomer. A riding crop is his 'favorite' among a laundry list of collars, paddles, etc. (again, absolutely nothing wrong with this, just evidence that this is not a newcomer despite being seemingly oblivious to basic scc). I develop serious concerns this person is practicing abuse, not sane and consensual BDSM.
This is my takeaway from weeks of testing him, reading between the lines, and every shred of my hard-fought instinct. Every single last part of our interaction is consistent with this guy being a malignant narcissist, which is right next door to psychopath. Everything fit- the absolute obsession with power and control, complete lack of empathy, insecurity, entitlement, rage, the gaslighting, the love bombing, the meticulous mask around the hollow interior, intermittently cracking open under my well-placed disobedience, revealing a cauldron of rage.
Best way I can describe it is that he wants to own people, possess them. Women are objects to be utilized. The entirety of my worth as a human being is in my service to his pleasure. He talked about his exes with contemptuous disgust for their weakness, they were playthings that got boring once he drained them of resistance. The volcanic rage under the veneer of control. It is clear from the fantasies he shared that he doesn't care about my bodily autonomy. He is a literal vampire, sucking away life force to feed his black hole of an ego, a deeply insecure hungry ghost that will never ever be satisfied. He was draining my life force away from me, even from thousands of miles away never having met. This is a very powerful demon. I have engaged respectfully with guys on the internet in a dom/sub dynamic and I know what it feels like to be submissive to a stranger who cares about my consent and me as a human being. This interaction was entirely absent on both counts and that became more and more clear the more comfortable he got. Again, none of this was explicit or obvious, he tried to cover it up and succeeded for a time, but after learning more about narcissistic patterns, it was all there under the surface, his responses were totally formulaic and designed to manipulate me into his grasp.
Every part of my instinct as an assault survivor and the daughter of a narcissistic abuser tells me that this person is not just a narcissist but a dangerous one. The desire to get evidence and confirmation for that instinct is part of what kept me in the game so long, but eventually I realized I was in danger and had to get out immediately.
He returned to the west coast from a long overseas contract a few weeks ago, and by then I did a few days of grey rock before going no contact. He reached out a few times on different platforms over several days to try and reel me back, perfectly sweet and kind and casual. Beneath that, I know he was enraged. Thank fucking god I got my head on straight or I would have gone to meet this demon in the real world. He has lots of money and time on his hands, so the process of extricating myself was absolutely terrifying. I am indifferent now and he has no part of my mental real estate, but the fear that he could somehow find me will be in the back of my head for a while, and it's frustrating as hell to know I will never be able to relax or let my guard down in the dating world.
Does this person sound familiar to you? Have you had a similar experience? I just wish I could somehow warn the BDSM community where he lives. I am so scared for the young women who are going to be reeled in to this guy's trap and potentially abused. I'm older and wiser, and I almost fell for it. Since I don't have proof and there is arguably grey area about my conclusion, I don't know if it's morally ok to proclaim that I know for sure what this person is. But I can feel it in my guts without a shadow of doubt. Any advice or input much appreciated.

**If anyone is struggling with narcissistic abuse, I recommend Dr. Ramani and Dr. Les Carter on youtube. They helped me get out before it was too late and helped me understand how my history and my big heart make me a prime target and a magnet for abusive narcissists. Be well friends, and always trust your gut no matter what, even when everyone around you is telling you otherwise.
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2020.11.16 06:44 foreign_dreams Canadian Citizenship

A permanent resident of Canada, who has lived in Canada for a total of 3 years out of last 5 years and has also filed the required taxes, is eligible for Canadian citizenship. There are additional requirements of passing the citizenship test as well as proving the language abilities. In addition to this, the conditions are different for different categories of people:
· Permanent residents
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· Adopted Child
· Fast Track Process for Canadian Armed Forces
· Revive Citizenship
· Spouse of Canadian citizen
Spouses of Canadian citizen have to follow the procedure for permanent residents to become Canadian citizen. They are not eligible for automatic citizenship. But, children and grandchildren can become citizen automatically depending upon various conditions. Also, permanent residents should have a valid status in Canada even if the PR card is expired.

Condition for Time spent in Canada:

The eligible candidates wishing to apply for Canadian citizenship must have spent 1095 days in Canada in the last 5 years.

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Anyone wishing to apply for citizenship might need to file income tax for 3 years in the last 5 years.

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Anyone between the age of 18-54 have to prove language abilities in either English or French at CLB level 4 or more, in listening and speaking.
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Anyone between the age of 18-54 have to appear for a test to check information on the following aspects of Canada. The test is held in both English and French, has 20 questions (Multiple choice and true/false) and is for 30 minutes. The passing marks are 15.

Each person is given two attempts to pass test, otherwise they have to appear for a personal interview. If a person fails in all three attempts, then application is rejected and person has to re-apply.

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In case, someone is not able to attend the citizenship test and interview, then they have to inform the authorities, otherwise their application will not be processed further.

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The details about citizenship related fee is available on this link.

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Canada allows one to have citizenship from another country along with Canadian, but the other country may or may not allow it.

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2020.11.14 17:16 Nadyita Nadybot 5.0 beta released

After about 1 year of work, I'm proud to finally release Nadybot 5.0 beta to the public.
What on earth is Nadybot 5.0?
You might be wondering "why 5.0?" and "What happened to 1.0 till 4.0?" Let me explain: Nadybot started as a fork of Budabot 4.0 and eventually let to me releasing my own version of Budabot 4.1 and then 4.2 (https://github.com/Nadyita/Budabot) but after that I decided that it was time to change the name, because I didn't want to call myself the "official" Budabot developer since Tyrence left. So now everyone can see that it's actually like a Budabot 5.0, just not a Budabot anymore. And although the name is nothing to write home about, I eventually got used to it.
Why you should be using it
Nadybot has all the new items, nanos and tons of fixes that were long overdue. It also has a clean codebase that's not a pain to work with. And I am motivated to add more features and fixes.
Upgrading from Budabot 4 to Nadybot 5 is as seamless as it gets: just install and use your old database.
The code is, as was Budabot's, fully released under the GPL and we're still working on improving it and adding features.
Key features
Requirements
If you are interested
There's a public bot Nadybot open to everyone (very much like Zetabyte or Darnbot) which you can use to test commands and what they look like. Feel free to send some !totw or !subway command or join the private chat and play around. Note: That bot doesn't have the raid module enabled though, because it requires a different permission system.
Feel free to contact me on Discord with any questions about the bot. Unless I'm raiding, I usually answer promptly ;o)
There's also a Discord server that you can join and where you can see the Discord integration of the bot in action.
And I also happen to be a regular reader of /anarchyonline, so feel free to ask your questions in this thread.
Full changelog since Budabot 4.0
Version 5.0: 
This is the first version named Nadybot and the first one to only support PHP7.4+.
Features
Changes
Bug fixes
Coding

Version 4.2: 
This is the last version named Budabot and the last one to support PHP5. Development will continue with Nadybot.
Features
Changes
Bug fixes
Coding

Version 4.1: 
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2020.11.14 12:13 xchromeheartsx [REVIEW] HERMES HSS SO KELLY 25 NOIR x ROUGE DE COEUR SELLIER IN CHEVRE MYSORE LEATHER BGHW - SYMODE FACTORY (TS ELAINE)

DISCLAIMER: NO INCENTIVE WAS GIVEN FOR THIS REVIEW. IT IS PURELY BASED ON MY PERSONAL OPINION AND BUYING EXPERIENCE.

DETAILS

Seller: TS Elaine
Purchase Price: USD$1650 + USD$50 (HSS SO) + USD$30 (Shipping charges) = USD$1730
Payment Method: Alipay via Transferwise

ORDER TIMELINE

25/06: Made an enquiry for Symode VS Century Factory’s Hermes HSS SO Kelly bags. Decided on Symode and transferred funds to Elaine via Transferwise subsequently.
26/06: Pre-order confirmed and placed with Symode. Approximately 30 days for turnaround time.
23/07: Delayed as Symode’s craftmen were hiding and laying low due to frequent police raids for replicated goods.
12/08: Some girls got their PSPs despite ordering it at a much later date. Texted Elaine frantically to which her reply was translated as, “Bag in the process of production.”
17/08: Symode’s craftsmen got my order entirely wrong. Made in togo instead of chèvre mysore leather. Elaine requested for my order to be re-made in the correct leather on the highest priority.
25/08: More girls got PSPs for their Symode HSS SO pre-orders. EXTRA frantic and impatient at this juncture but Elaine managed to calm me down rather quickly!
05/09: Received 1001 PSPs from Elaine. GL-ed it within 30 minutes.
06/09: Bag was sent out via EMS.
15/09: Received HSS SO K25.
This is presumably a one-off and unfortunate incident (Probaby bad-timing). Neither Elaine nor Symode is at fault as it was way beyond anyone’s predicaments and circumstances. Replicas are reputed for its ‘complications’ to which I have my fair share of hits and misses. Fundamentally, I HAVE SCORED A REALLY GORGEOUS BAG!

HERMES K25 SELLIER

No factory photos as this is a customisation pre-order with Symode.
[PSPs]
[PHOTOs AND VID]
[AFTER UNBOXING]
[MODSHOTs AND BOTDs]
[LINK TO AUTHENTIC]

QUALITY AND ASSESSMENT - 10/10

For the greater love of H science, this is my fifth and possibly, the last Symode (Coincidentally, my first HSS SO K25 in chèvre mysore leather) Hermès for this brilliant year of 2020. Made the plunge after a thorough consideration post-Symode-crazy-drama-days.
It was LOVE at first sight - More so after the delay for two months odd. Symode as a high tier replica rarely fails. It is amazingly rigid, has impeccable stitching, the chèvre leather feels luxe and the glazing was made to perfection.
My HSS SO’s selection is based on references from Hermès’ Colorama and Linings Colorama for SS2020 to AW2020: Noir exterior x Rouge de Cœur interior; chèvre mysore leather; brushed gold hardware; tone-on-tone stitching and blind stamp Y (Year 2020). Some girls on Purseforum got their HSS SO as soon as 3 to 4 months this year. Very fortunate!
The one and only complaint albeit not major (Not taking any points off either): The fufu greeted me in full swing whilst unboxing it. Too pungent and stunk up my study room. I placed 2 charcoal bags (Obtainable from Daiso stores in APEC regions) for the inners and left it to air by the window for a good 3 to 4 days before its first debut.
** It is 2 months since I receive this bag, the synthetic-esque and plasticky fufu still lingers periodically.

ACCURACY AND ASSESSMENT - 9/10

[VID]
Colour and Leather: Impressive chèvre leather’s quality and texture - Medium-ish thickness. It has spine-like veinings running in the middle at the back and front. One may mistake the veinings as scratches when the bag is tilted at different angles under the light. I liken it as chèvre’s natural leather nature. No scruffings or indentations sustained on noir chèvre leather. Has a very nice, luxuriant and supple feel to which my fingers can’t stop caressing it whenever possible.
As I do not have any authentic K25 to compare, I relied on sources retrievable online.
Dimensions: (-0.25) This chèvre K25 sellier measures 9.9" (Width) x 7.2" (Height) x 4.1" (Depth); 3.35" (Handle drop) and 17.15" (Shoulder strap drop). Weighs 579g - Contrary to what I googled up, some authentic K25 chèvres weigh between 704-709g.
FROM VESTIAIRE COLLECTIVE
There are vast disparities in dimensions for authentic chèvre (Sellier), epsom (Sellier) and togo (Retourne):
Chèvre: 9.65" (Width) x 6.9" (Height) x 3.75" (Depth); 3.5" (Handle drop) and 16.5" (Shoulder strap drop)
Epsom: 9.8" (Width) x 7.5" (Height) x 3.5" (Depth); 3.5" (Handle drop) and 16.5" (Shoulder strap drop)
Togo: 9.8" (Width) x 6.7" (Height) x 4.15" (Depth); 3" (Handle drop) and 16.5" (Shoulder strap drop)
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My initial thoughts: It would look and feel as dry as Symode’s desert-esque epsom and togo leathers. Surprisingly, this chèvre mysore leather is neither dry nor dehydrated in any way. Hand-rubbed a thick slather of Cadillac Select premium conditioner on the interior and exterior as conditioning agent after cleaning it with Leather Honey. I was worried and skeptical about leather discolouration. Very thankfully, the microfibre cloth picked up none of the colours. It striped away a tiny winy bit of fufu and revitalised the matte-looking noir chèvre mysore significantly. Added a nice sheen and character to it - The ‘spines’ looked much more obvious and pronounced thereafter.
Shape: It looks on point and very rigid. The sides and corners are nicely creased as a proper sellier without any visible slouching and deformities. Cumbersome to take things in and out due to the sellier’s rigid-ness. The tight and narrow flap opening limits its actual capacity. I would risk damaging this gorgeous beauty and ruining the seams sooner if I were to force-stuff all-my-thingamajigs - Tried it once and it resembles a bloated whale.
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Bag Strap: (-0.25) It imprints a beautiful stamping but in all due honesty; very impractical and serves zero purpose due to its inaccuracy. Should be stamped with the standardised Hermès stamping instead. Too late for any rectification when I realised it. Using a Dior shoulder strap as replacement for now.
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Stitching: Clean, tight, neat and uniformed stitches at visible areas. No wonky and loose stitches spotted.
Hardware and Touret: Made of sturdy brushed gold hardware - Gold in a matte finish gives it a subtle look. The spindle is not flimsy but secure. It turns and opens smoothly without any tension and resistance. Its four cloc are evenly-spaced apart allowing the bag to stand upright by itself.
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Sangles and Plaque: The wordings ‘HERMÈS - PARIS’ are crisply engraved in the correct format. Sangles are not limpy, sloppy or messy but very neat and properly cut.
Visible pearlings are essential. There are no tarnishing, rustiness and falling pins. What I really like: Slightly protruded and raised ‘O’ pearlings with a tiniest ‘moat’ surrounding it.
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Glazing: My biggest peeve! Would consider the overall glazing to be satisfactory. The colour, matte-ness, uniformity and thickness are clean, even and well-made. No sticky residue. Its edges run and blend smoothly without rough and cracked blotches.
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Handle: (-0.5) I would likened a slimmer and a slight V-curved handle. This runs slightly thicker and burly in an inverted U-curve. Since it could be hidden, I am using a Dior mitzah.
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For Elaine’s reference: [HSS STAMPINGS]
Stamping: Genuinely pleased with it. The stamping is of the right pressure - Neither faint nor strong-looking. Clean, neat alignment and runs parallel in the correct font and sizes. The infamous case of the floating ‘S’ for HERMÈS is not apparent.
The letters for ‘MADE IN FRANCE’ exist in one tiny bit of a smaller font than ‘PARIS’. Not one single alphabet is smudging but imprinted in clear and precise big alphabets with the correct spacing after ‘MADE’ and ‘IN’.
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Interior: Feels very soft and supple with subtle spines and veining - I would love to see more and more of it! The Rouge de Cœur interior adds a fun candy pop to the Noir. Exudes Louboutin-esque vibe. Really LOVE it.
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Interior Zipper: In gold hardware, runs smoothly, does not hang vertically and has ‘HERMÈS’ engraved on it. For Hermès bags, the zipper’s pull lie parallel to the teeth and should not dangle vertically into the pocket. The tab is a folded piece of leather; well-cut into a diamond shape in Rouge de Cœur colour.
Blind Stamp: Not a huge concern since it is hidden internally. In Hermès’ context, the blind stamp is not fully indicative and guarantee of its authenticity either.
Clochette Cover: Neat stitches with clean glazing at the edges. Mid and lower-tier replicas tend to be stitched up with flimsy and tacky-looking leather pieces.
Cadenas (Lock) and Key: Nothing major and/or notable to fault.

SATISFACTION AND ASSESSMENT - 9.5/10

Once you go Symode for replica Hermes; it is an endless black hole. In my honest view, the accuracy level of Symode Hermès to authentics is approximately 90% thereabouts. Heavily dependent on which TS you work with. Elaine and Fang are sharp and scrutinise the finer details. Four of my Symode Hermès from Elaine are stellar except for one particular K28 Etain togo from another seller which is neither great nor terrible. Brought this gorgeous darling into the local Hermès boutique on a few occasions. Certainly turned some heads around including my SA.
(-0.5) To be forthright, Symode’s price point is unjustifiable as of current. It is unbearably spenny to go YOLO on impulsive whims and fancy outbursts. Till then, I shall make a wise and considerable decision about acquiring the next Symode when the right time comes.
I have exceeded replife budget for the year 2020. Coupled with 2 HSS SO-es: B30 and K28 are in the midst of production - 11/11 sales are tempting! Trying a variety of alternatives besides Symode and the usuals.
Received my HSS SO B30 from Steven yesterday. Great efficiency and lightning quick shipping: [BLEU HYDRA x ROSE MEXICO CHÈVRE MYSORE BGHW]

SELLER COMMUNICATION AND SERVICE - 10000000/10

Elaine is superbly lovely, patient, meticulous and efficient as always. Not one iota of complain except a billion praises for her. She willingly takes 123456789 PSPs using a DSLR - My highlight of the day during lockdown 1.0. Amongst all the sellers for RL, she ranks as my top favourite.

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Merci mille fois for reading this lengthy review!
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Submission As someone who used to be a JW, please help this gain more attention
Comments As someone who used to be a JW, please help this gain more attention
Author UnsettlingAura
Subreddit /iamatotalpieceofshit
Posted On Fri Nov 13 18:02:26 UTC 2020
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Author Jouzu
Posted On Fri Nov 13 22:24:39 UTC 2020
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Yep, they are eagerly awaiting the killing of 99.9% of humankind, only they will survive Armageddon. The birds will eat the flesh of the unbelievers I think, heck of a clean up job otherwise... Imagine the immense joy of washing through piles of dead kids, yeah, that is whatJWs hope for.
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Author kiwi_scorpio
Posted On Fri Nov 13 21:50:45 UTC 2020
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I'm a nurse here in New Zealand and if a pregnant JW has to have a caesarean section we have to set up a special suction unit called a cell saver. We suction up their blood as they proceed with the surgery and it gets filtered and put back into the patient. I've also been in situations where a JW has said to the doctor in front of their family members that they don't want blood, but as soon as they are away from their family members they let the doctor know that in fact they will have whatever will save their life.
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Author sactownox22
Posted On Fri Nov 13 20:51:30 UTC 2020
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So, only 1.7% of the google-estimated total of 8.4 millionJWs worldwide get to the promised land? That is some stiff competition.
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Author Havamar
Posted On Sat Nov 14 00:06:57 UTC 2020
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It's self-reported as "only they will know". They only have 144,000 seats in heaven available. The rest of the plebs are going to live forever on a paradise earth, after they clean up the 8 billion bodies after God kills everyone that isn't a JW at "Armageddon".
Any time I ever saw any "annointed" the other church members were talking behind their backs saying that they didn't really think they were.
It's kinda funny, and an oddly brutal belief system.
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Author arrian-
Posted On Fri Nov 13 21:43:20 UTC 2020
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well its not only with childbirth, theJW's have highlighted cases where children who need blood transfusions to live were taught to reject them by their parents because its "disrespectful to god"
their whole blood doctrine is complete bullshit, they say that you can't use blood because it represents life and if you *eat* blood you're disrespecting God's authority and disrespecting life. Which makes no sense, because if you respected life you'd give someone a blood transfusion if they needed it to live.
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Author YouDontKnowMe2017
Posted On Sat Nov 14 00:37:50 UTC 2020
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They’re pieces of shit: https://www.npr.org/2020/01/09/795019348/montana-court-reverses-35-million-child-abuse-verdict-against-`jehovahs-witnesses`
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Author Vorian23
Posted On Fri Nov 13 22:59:51 UTC 2020
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That’s exactly what they do https://freedomofmind.com/the-bite-model-and-`jehovahs-witnesses`/
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Author cookingismything
Posted On Fri Nov 13 22:15:42 UTC 2020
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I was never a JW but my husband was raised in the religion. My gut is saying the answer to your question is pretty simple. THEY DO NOT EVER WANT TO INVOLVE THE POLICE. You see, they take care of any little issues themselves. If there is a problem, you reach out to an elder or elders (those are the respected male leaders of their congregation) and they are so wide that they will know what to do. I’m so sorry for this young girl. My husband knows so many that have killed themselves because of this cult
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Author madgraffics
Posted On Fri Nov 13 20:12:52 UTC 2020
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Is your mom my mom? I got raised in that shit and my abuser was found guilty in a court of law but not disfellowshipped but my mom still thinks this is the end all b e all of religions (:

Edit: meant to put not not now
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Author U-Cranium
Posted On Fri Nov 13 21:38:37 UTC 2020
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Not only this, Jehovah's Witness have a book they produce that's full of pictures of kids and stories of how they bravely chose to die instead of accept a transfusion. Fucking disgusting cult,happy I got out
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Author wanderingwomb
Posted On Fri Nov 13 22:59:24 UTC 2020
Score 170 as of Sun Nov 15 17:59:28 UTC 2020
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Knowing the cult I’m willing to bet after gaslighting her that it was consensual they then disfellowshipped her for having sex outside of marriage.
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Author sashay33
Posted On Fri Nov 13 21:33:45 UTC 2020
Score 8 as of Sun Nov 15 17:59:29 UTC 2020
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exjw is a wealth of info
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Author LurkerTryingToTalk
Posted On Sat Nov 14 00:24:58 UTC 2020
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Freemasons describe their organization as a society with secrets, not a secret society.
Their buildings are not hidden, people are proud to be members and let people know. They mostly just do community service and stupid rituals. You can look up all their rituals online and they've been known for ages.
Fun fact, the Boy Scouts was started by Freemasons based on their principles as a sort of youth division.
Jehovah Witnesses are totally crazy.
Freemasons are mostly OK. In the UK you don't have to believe in a god to join but you do in the USA. Freemasons existed long before Jehovah Witnesses.
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Author razzyboss1
Posted On Sat Nov 14 00:34:31 UTC 2020
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Yep definetly. My grandma (a JW) needed a blood transfusion during her surgery and a fucking JW president or something from her "church" insisted he'd be in the room to make sure she won't get a blood transfusion. Luckily the doctor didn't allow him and we had to (i'll probably get backlash for this but fuck it, might as well be honest) bribe the doctor to make sure he will do whatever is necessary to keep her safe. Fortunately the surgery was a success and she is doing much better now in case you're wondering!
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Author jaffakree83
Posted On Fri Nov 13 21:37:36 UTC 2020
Score 57 as of Sun Nov 15 17:59:34 UTC 2020
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Heh, my dad busted out the Bible and got into a religious debate with a JW and they never came around again.
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Author firegato
Posted On Fri Nov 13 23:44:18 UTC 2020
Score 82 as of Sun Nov 15 17:59:35 UTC 2020
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Hold up. Jesus was like: "yo this wine is like my blood and shit. Pass it around and drink it." so... (I know dogma doesn't have to make sense) how in the F you gonna, through conjecture, arrive at such a Ludacris conclusion?JWs make up silly rules, that's why I'm glad I left that organization.
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Author brb_on_a_quest
Posted On Fri Nov 13 21:23:54 UTC 2020
Score 23 as of Sun Nov 15 17:59:36 UTC 2020
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Ex-jw here also. Am disfellowshipped. I wish I could say this shit surprised me, but it’s par for the course. I think the JW’s are generally considered a joke, but it’s a dangerous and damaging cult.
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Author BooceAlmighty
Posted On Fri Nov 13 22:11:21 UTC 2020
Score 14 as of Sun Nov 15 17:59:37 UTC 2020
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It's always super old guys with the Jehovah's Witnesses in my area who've been going door to door. Except for the one time they started sending REALLY pretty girls together with an old man waiting nearby.
That was the only time I've purposely answered the door for Jehovah's Witnesses.
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Author ByCrookedSteps781
Posted On Fri Nov 13 21:25:38 UTC 2020
Score 29 as of Sun Nov 15 17:59:37 UTC 2020
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I would gladly beat the fuck outta that peice of shit, I used to be part of it till 5 or 6 untill my mum got disfellowshipped as a result of them finding out she had me out of wedlock, all it taught me was how much hypocrisy religion spews out. 28 years later my aunty who grew up JW and left after her marriage broke down only to become a lesbian hippy, all of a sudden decides she is no longer lesbian, renounces her former life and goes back to the church. Life is a weird experience.
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Author drunkennudeles
Posted On Sat Nov 14 00:45:09 UTC 2020
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Once the last person is admitted then theJWs rise from the grave to take this world for themselves while everyone else perished.
They also do communion but only people going to heaven drink it so they just pass a cup around the room with "jesus' blood" in it.
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Author CaterwaulOfDoom
Posted On Fri Nov 13 21:12:30 UTC 2020
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Many Christians dispute the idea that Jehovah's Witnesses are Christian because they don't believe that Jesus is God.
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Author Yurak_Huntmate
Posted On Fri Nov 13 21:25:07 UTC 2020
Score 358 as of Sun Nov 15 17:59:48 UTC 2020
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My mum got our house blacklisted by the jehovahs witnesses because she brought up the blood transfusion thing, she asked one of them if their child was dying and needed one would they give them it, they replied no, so she went off on them calling them scum, they never returned to our house
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Author uneducatedexpert
Posted On Sat Nov 14 00:23:35 UTC 2020
Score 35 as of Sun Nov 15 17:59:49 UTC 2020
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I was raised as a JW. I started getting molested at 6 by an older cousin. That continued until the age of 9, under threat, until I was able to gain the courage to tell my parents. They didn’t get me help as it would have brought reproach against god. At age 11 my maternal grandmother moved in and molested me as well, until 13. Again, there was no help. No counseling, no support and my grandmother lived in the house after this.
At 15 I made out with my dream girl and we got to heavy petting, as jw’s like to call it. We got caught as was an absolute no no to even hold hands.
I had to site for an hour with three male elders, while I described in vivid detail what we had done. The wanted to know about her wetness, my erection, if we climaxed and what was done with it. Down to the fucking detail. Yet they didn’t want to know anything about my abuse.
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Author aka_jr91
Posted On Fri Nov 13 22:24:57 UTC 2020
Score 542 as of Sun Nov 15 18:00:03 UTC 2020
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Former JW here. AllJW's are expected to sign and carry a durable power of attorney, which they also call a "no blood card." It states for you that even if you're unconscious, you still reject transfusions.
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Author baconaliens
Posted On Fri Nov 13 22:44:34 UTC 2020
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From the article it was just audio, happened more than once and she recorded it herself. Probably because the guy was an Elder's son so she felt she needed evidence for people to believe her and why they psychologically tortured her for hours.
I was raised a JW, my mom still is and has seen this. We actually also live in Utah, near this congregation. It is a cult and it's a shame it attracts good people like my mom and others I have met through the church.
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Author lunakuuipo
Posted On Sat Nov 14 00:41:55 UTC 2020
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Yes! This. Having to go to the other classroom during bday celebrations because my family would make sure to let my teachers know every year that we wereJWs and that I can’t do that... I felt like even more of an outsider. It’s traumatic. I know what you went through and I’m so sorry you were also subjected to this 😣
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Author Empath_Wrath
Posted On Fri Nov 13 21:22:47 UTC 2020
Score 171 as of Sun Nov 15 18:00:14 UTC 2020
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I remember a girl in elementary school who was a JW. She never stood for the pledge or celebrated any holiday so there were days she looked absolutely dejected sitting outside the celebrations.
The worst the was during morning announcements, if it was your birthday, the entire school would sing happy birthday. Of course she had the only birthday that day, but JW don’t celebrate birthdays, so the entire school sang to her. She looked so miserable and uncomfortable, but when she started crying at the end, I think it broke everyone in class.
Fuck Jehovah’s Witnesses
Edit: we all knew in class she didn’t celebrate her birthday, but the rest of the school didn’t. So we just sat there in silence, looking at her, like kids do. The anguish is etched in my brain.
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Author smutmuffin1978
Posted On Fri Nov 13 21:23:04 UTC 2020
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These people are messed up! My BFF from high school was raised a JW. When her parents sold their house we were helping them pack and found her dad's porn in the rafters of the basement - not regular porn mind you - beastialitality porn! She said that explained why the dog hated her dad!
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Author Made-upDreams
Posted On Fri Nov 13 22:00:45 UTC 2020
Score 29 as of Sun Nov 15 18:00:16 UTC 2020
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Seeing this is odd as I just started watching Cults and Extreme Belief on Hulu and saw their Jehovah’s Witness episode...fuck now I wish I wasn’t so nice when they kept coming to my door.
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Author ralphiooo0
Posted On Fri Nov 13 21:48:12 UTC 2020
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Hey! I have the almost identical story.
How did you get away with not getting baptised ? I was kinda lucky as mum wasn’t a JW.
My dad was pretty chill for an elder. I never really got any pressure to get baptised either. Was kinda like they thought it was a given but then I hit 16 and started going out and getting drunk and then I don’t think dad minded that I stopped going to church as was always a wreck.
It’s funny what you say about people being sucked in when they are down on their luck. I went to a JW bbq a few years ago and was bored as had nothing on common so started asked people what made them join. Every single one had some shitty life event. Cancer, car accident. Violent partner etc etc. then knock knock I have the answer for you.
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Author m1ssile_
Posted On Fri Nov 13 22:00:54 UTC 2020
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I’m so sorry to hear that, the brainwashing is so sad, how can you just shun family.
I got baptized at 13, what got to me was all the hypocrisy and mind control, and by 22 I noped the heck outta there. I started hanging out with “worldly” friends, started missing a bunch of meetings, and eventually got a non-JW GF; I wasn’t disfellowshipped as far as I know, I just pretty much ghosted the church and people I had known my whole life; at the time I was young and didn’t care, I was glad to rid myself of the most judgmental people in my life. My mom is still really into the religion, but I am very lucky that she’s not fanatical, my other 2 siblings also left the church and she still speaks to us like nothings changed. It took her around 4 years or so for her to finally stop trying to get us to come back “to the truth”. I remember being an angry kid growing up in the church, once I left the change in my personality was obvious and my family noticed. Best decision I made in my life was leaving.
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Author ISawHimIFoughtHim
Posted On Fri Nov 13 21:58:51 UTC 2020
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There are noJWs in my country so I don't know this stuff.
Can the husband force his wife to die like that without doctors interfering? Why doesn't the wife say something?
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Author Creepy-Exit-5034
Posted On Fri Nov 13 22:35:04 UTC 2020
Score 27 as of Sun Nov 15 18:00:35 UTC 2020
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wait thats a thing? I used to be a JW as a kid bc my mom forced her religion onto me but I never saw any book like that
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Author westfunk
Posted On Fri Nov 13 20:48:13 UTC 2020
Score 53 as of Sun Nov 15 18:00:36 UTC 2020
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If Scientology and Mormonism had a baby, it would be a Jehovahs Witness.
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Author Catalyst375
Posted On Fri Nov 13 21:49:41 UTC 2020
Score 84 as of Sun Nov 15 18:00:38 UTC 2020
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Parents are not able to prevent their children from getting a blood transfusion. The doctors can give them the transfusion against the parents wishes. The parents will absolutely try to stop them though, and I'm sure there are plenty of example ofJWs denying life-saving transfusion.
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Author UnsettlingAura
Posted On Fri Nov 13 20:19:37 UTC 2020
Score 195 as of Sun Nov 15 18:00:39 UTC 2020
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There are a lot ofJWs who are in abusive relationships but cannot escape because divorce is a sin. It really is sick
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Author UnsettlingAura
Posted On Fri Nov 13 20:51:40 UTC 2020
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Uugh idk how to explain it, I would say look it up but I don't want y'all giving clicks to their homepage. Try asking in exjw they should know!
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Author dec44
Posted On Fri Nov 13 21:21:11 UTC 2020
Score 11 as of Sun Nov 15 18:00:41 UTC 2020
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Don't forget receiving blood transfusions is also forbidden. A fellow kid I was in school with who was JW had a blood disease and needed a transfusion to live. His parents said no so he died. Fuck all religions.
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Author Its_daveed
Posted On Fri Nov 13 21:28:29 UTC 2020
Score 116 as of Sun Nov 15 18:00:41 UTC 2020
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I almost died because i needed a blood transfusion but my dad was a JW and didnt want it happening but stuff happened and i ended up having a blood transfusion.
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Author NOFXpunklinoleum
Posted On Fri Nov 13 19:37:59 UTC 2020
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I grew up in a JW family. Dad an elder.
This is good, and accurate. A little more information, you have to be baptized in order to be disfellowshipped. You can hang around and attend meetings, but the end game is to get you baptized so that total control can be established.
Witnesses are "nice" people. My parents' congregation gets a lot of "down on their luck" types who just attend meetings to get free meals, rides, and even job hookups. My loser uncle who due to health issues can no longer smoke, drink or do drugs started attending meetings a few years ago, my mom fixes his truck, drives him to doctor appointments, took him to Victoria for medical treatment. He barely spoke to anyone in our family his whole life, but he knew where to come for handouts.
The handouts are meant to keep the person around so they can be talked into getting baptized. Most of these people end up taking off after getting all they can outside of getting baptized, but a few get sucked right in.
A friend of mine stayed a JW for many years. His mom died when he was 13, and he was told over and over again that the only way for him to see her again was for him to stay in "The Truth", and that she would be resurrected one day. As he was a child, this was instilled deeply in him, and it took well into his adulthood to realize this was pure craziness. He was eventually disfellowshipped, now his father and two sisters will not speak to him or acknowledge his existence. They have quite literally walked by him on the street without making eye contact. I don't know how someone could do that to family.
I was never baptized, so my parents still talk to me and we have an ok relationship. But that rift is always there, and I know my mom's greatest wish is that someday I'll see the light.
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Author Qball92
Posted On Fri Nov 13 21:07:51 UTC 2020
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It's from 12,000 people from each of the 12 tribes of Israel. Not a JW/exJW, just a little bit of a religious scholar.
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Author theknyte
Posted On Sat Nov 14 00:16:07 UTC 2020
Score 37 as of Sun Nov 15 18:00:50 UTC 2020
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I know the general world just laughs at Jehovah Witnesses as those "Nutty religious people who knock on the door."
This is all they want the general world to think of them.
THEY ARE A CULT.
They use classic indoctrination and brainwashing tricks that are only employed by cults. They use families against each other with their "Disfellowshipping" belief. Which is: If you don't follow the church's rule 100% to their liking, they will disfellowship you. You are cut off. From everything. Your friends and even your own family is told not to talk to, meet, or contact in any way shape or form, until they come crawling back to the church, begging to be let back in.
Parents willingly kick their own children out of their homes, if the Elders (Leaders of the church, ie Pastors, Priests, etc.) demand it.
They are not to associate with "Worldly Influences". Which means, no friends who are outside the church. No dating outside the church. No watching or reading ANY media not approved by the church. (Information Control and Suppression, another classic cult tactic.)
They do not want authorities to ever be involved with their religion. So any abuse, physical, sexual, mental etc. that is reported to the church, is "dealt with" in house, and even if serious crimes have been committed, they will not report them, for fear of bad publicity.
This is not a harmless religion with "Silly beliefs" such as simply not celebrating or recognizing any holiday including Birthdays. This is a cult, that has been manipulating and controlling their members for over 100 years now.
SOURCE: Was raised in JW org, and left as soon as I was old enough to.
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Author throw_away_abc123efg
Posted On Fri Nov 13 22:31:56 UTC 2020
Score 74 as of Sun Nov 15 18:00:51 UTC 2020
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They probably witnessed it, I mean, they are called Jehovah’s Witnesses.
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Author ZoraksGirlfriend
Posted On Fri Nov 13 23:38:42 UTC 2020
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There was one woman who died after refusing a transfusion. For some reason, it made the news and her family was talking about beingJWs. One of them said something like “in this day and age, you’d think doctors be able to prevent her death.”
I can’t remember if I literally face palmed, but I know I yelled at the tv.
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Author Blathersisacoward
Posted On Fri Nov 13 20:14:37 UTC 2020
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Growing up in a JW household this doesn’t surprise me in the slightest.
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Author Vorian23
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They actually celebrate it when children “remain faithful to Jehovah and are willing to give their lives to uphold his laws”. This article is from their magazine the awake and it spotlights kids who died. https://wol.`jw.org`/en/wol/d/r1/lp-e/101994363 It’s a horrible cult. I wish more people knew about their harmful practices
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Author San_Ajo
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My grandmother was a JW and wanted to let my mother, who needed a transfusion after birth, die. (Austria, 1976)
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Author Mina111406
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If they say it's for religious purposes, there isn't much that can be done. Was working with a patient that died after a car accident because she refused a transfusion because she was JW. She looked terrified saying it, but her husband was there exclaiming the sin of receiving a transfusion. She would have been fine, even though she was seriously injured, but she just lost too much blood. She had a toddler and a baby and died because of her religious belief. Seems extremely selfish to me, but thats my opinion.
There are artificial blood products now specifically for this reason. Because it's fake, they can take the transfusion. But only if a hospital has it available. It's not super common and hard to get in a timely fashion.
Source: am lab tech that does blood bank and work in a very small hospital that also gives me a lot of ER patient interaction.
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Author DickJagamo
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The Jehovah's Witnesses are a cult. Not quite as bad as Scientology, but still pretty bad.
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2020.11.10 16:27 SmallBusinessOps Bus For Sale Call 516-333-7483 How to inspect, buy, and dispose of a used bus for sale?

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All the facts that we have discussed till now, primarily refer to used shuttle buses because they are the only vehicles that fall within the most affordable price range of $10,000 to $50,000. When we talk about mini and midi buses, we are referring to used pre-owned vehicles because a basic 15 seat new bus for sale will start at $50,000 to $75,000 before tax which is not affordable to a majority of new businesses and organizations. A new bus will depreciate up to 40% in just the first year of being on the road even if it was not used frequently. Hence, it’s better and wiser to let the better-financed companies with deeper pockets endure the depreciation hit. After a bus has gone through the initial stage of "early depreciation", its depreciation slows down in the following years and when the vehicle is put up for resale, the second owner will get a chance to own a bus that will not only be much less expensive but will also depreciate less when compared to its newer counterparts. The average life of a shuttle bus is 15 years and websites in the USA are full of used shuttle buses for sale that varies greatly in age and mileage. There are vehicles that may be just 2 years old from the date of manufacture while others maybe 7 or even 10 years older. Depending upon their age and the extent to which the previous owner had maintained them, every bus will have varying degrees of rust or scale underneath it. While some scale is expected, rust spreads on a bus from the ground up and from the inside out. The undercarriage or the chassis is affected due to the high quantity of salt present on the roads during snow seasons and its interiors can be affected due to several reasons like condensation, rain water, leaking roofs, or just by the passengers walking in with wet feet. In any case, the buyer has to be very careful about rust because it only grows with time. Just because a vehicle is a late model and is being sold at a comparatively cheaper price does not mean it’s a good deal especially if the owner did not maintain it properly and allowed rust to eat up its chassis. Most rust issues are hidden from immediate sight. Buyers should ask owners if the bus for sale had undergone any rust work in the past and request the necessary paperwork. The braking system of a bus is made of several steel components and that once rust has deeply penetrated the vehicle and both the brake lines and metal discs inside the brakes have been affected too. There is no way this will easily be visible to the eye so buyers should take a trusted and experienced technician along with them to thoroughly inspect the vehicle or hire third-party inspection companies to get a detailed report on the condition of the bus. Buyers should always make their purchasing decision based on the report provided by the inspectors and not let their immediate requirement or a "deal" cloud their decisions.

Sellers are often smart and know that their vehicles won't sell if they are heavily rusted. As a result, they first try to conceal the problem by repainting and try to hide any rusted patches in the interior too. But when this gimmick fails they try to sell cheap just to get rid of their headache. Now, you as a buyer don't want to buy someone else's headache. If fact, you should not buy and avoid the headache altogether because buying a rusted vehicle will mean you will have to spend thousands of additional dollars to get it fixed. You should have your own repair shop or a trusted mechanic to get this done or be prepared to burn a bigger hole in your pocket. Some parts can be easily replaced like engine mounts. A bus normally has 3 engine mounts one for the transmission and the other two for the engine. These mounts should be replaced every 5 to 7 years. If they are heavily rusted then it’s time to replace them. Just remove the old mounts and replace them with the newly purchased mounts. You can do this yourself or ask the seller to do it for you or get a discount on the price of the bus. That was easy enough. However, if rust has spread to mechanical and other critical parts of the vehicle like transmission, radiator and chassis then fixing or replacing these components can be a huge expense and can potentially wreak havoc with your budget. Hence its better to avoid such buses altogether, there are always better options. The amount of rust will deeply impact the serviceable life of the vehicle. Such vehicles are a safety hazard and should not be put into operations unless repaired because depending up on the stage of the rust the strength of their metal parts are affected and reduced which can led to potential accidents, thus risking the lives of not only those on board but also those around the vehicle.

Make inspections an integral part of the buying process. The inspection company should be able to give you a detailed report on each and every major component of the vehicle. For example, transmission, chassis, radiators, engine, body, tires, brakes, dashboard, air conditioning, heating system, transmission oil, engine oil, lubricating oil, fuel analysis, fuel performance, and much more. Though it will be an additional cost to hire 3rd party professional companies to do the inspections that may not necessarily lead to a definite purchase but will go a long way in choosing the right vehicle that will not break down frequently or result in unexpected catastrophic repairs that will be financially difficult to fix, potentially making the vehicle unworthy. The primary objective is to buy a bus for sale that is good to transport groups of people safely. If the report shows that the vehicle has damaged parts but it can still be certified ready to hit the road and transport people efficiently then the buyer can ask for a dealer to make repairs or request a discount from the seller to fix the damaged parts. This is a legitimate negotiating factor and demands a substantial allowance. However, it will be best to cut the long journey short and buy the bus for sale from a licensed and bonded bus dealership because they tend to fully recondition their buses thoroughly before delivering them to the next buyer. Moreover, dealerships are in for the long run and want to maintain a long and healthy relationship with their customers rather than complete the transaction and disappear into thin air. They are interested in the bus till the last day it’s in your possession because they may want to buy or accept a trade-in vehicle when you don't need it anymore. Of course they will purchase only if it was well maintained and at a reasonable price that is profitable to them. However, it should be kept in mind that this is the fastest way to get rid of a vehicle that is no longer needed. Owners can waste several months finding the perfect buyer and until then the bus will be gathering dust in their yard or by the side of the road, plus there will be additional marketing cost and effort that owners might be spending listing their bus for sale at various online market places across the internet. The distraction, time, and attention they will be spending with unqualified buyers just isn’t worth it in most cases. Avoid all the hassle, just pickup the phone and ask your dealership to pick up the vehicle. That's how simple the bus disposal process is when you have a licensed dealership to work with.

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2020.11.10 07:52 March_Which Rahul Bhatnagar Biography and Net Worth, Bio, Career

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About Rahul Bhatnagar? Who is Rahul Bhatnagar?

Rahul Bhatnagar is an Indian Sales Expert and Mentor, Digital Entrepreneur, Youth Mentor, Motivational Speaker.
Rahul Bhatnagar is the co-founder and the director of Uprist Service Portal, Geeko Computech Pvt.Ltd.
Rahul Bhatnagar has a younger brother Saurabh Bhatnagar who helps him in his business.
Rahul Bhatnagar is very famous and popular among youth, students, and people because of his courses, webinar and honesty.
Home town – Dehradun
Date of Birth – 27th May 1994
Schooling – St. Joseph’s Academy, Missouri
Colleges – UPES, Dehradun and International Institute of Information Technology, Pune (MBA)
Profession – Entrepreneur, sales coach Public Speaking and Online Business Trainer.
Brother – Saurabh Bhatnagar
Marital status – Unmarried

Rahul Bhatnagar Career

If we talk about the Rahul Bhatnagar career then his career started with the Direct Selling Industry in December 2010.
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Rahul Bhatnagar then initiated Uprist Service Portal Pvt.Ltd. on 09 July 2012
Rahul Bhatnagar is an amazing personality and youth mentor he used to hold the event. You know Rahul has held one of the biggest events that were USP The Survivor.
Rahul Bhatnagar is the Co-founder of Uprist Service Portal Pvt.Ltd.
In the journey of Rahul Bhatnagar Career on 27th May 2017, he started Enrichment Begins Within.
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Rahul Bhatnagar Net Worth

If we talk about the Rahul Bhatnagar net worth then he never reveals his net worth so we do not have any information about his net worth.
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2020.11.09 19:03 throwRA_hapless Me (29M) am trying to pursue a LDR with a girl (29F) and I'm trying to manage my jealousy.

Good morning Reddit,
I apologize in advance for the length of this post and any formatting issues. I'm not on mobile I just love run-on sentences.
I met this person online who lives in the States - I live in Canada. Since we met we've been talking every night for several hours and a couple months into it we start saying those three words. I believe while she is dealing with a couple issues overall she is an amazing person capable of so much kindness and is fiercely passionate. I admire her and I'm wondering what my next steps would be. I'm not really sure why I'm writing here I feel like most people will read what I'm about to type and tell me to run for the hills but I guess what I'm hoping for is advice on how to be the best person I can be for this individual.
She had approached a couple of our mutual online friends asking if they would be intimate with her. She apologized saying that with her and I it's different and she only said those things because she's depressed and wasn't serious. I tell her while it hurt my feelings it's something I can get over since we're not in a relationship. Due to other reasons she stopped talking to these people.
Fast forward about a month or so later and again I feel we're getting close, she says she wants to be my girlfriend is just waiting for me to ask. I told her while I would love that to be the case give me some time to think. It's brought up several times and I ask her since she's going through a lot with her mental health if she wanted to not put a label on anything but work towards being with each other and be exclusive with each other till at least we get a chance to meet and see if this is what we think it is. She loves the idea and promises that she will stop being sexual with other guys.
Cut to a couple days later and she tells me she forgot about her promise due to her ADHD she has a hard time remembering stuff. Something happened and that she feels bad but she will try to remember her promise. I tell her I forgive her and we'll move past this together.
A few days later it happens again she just feels so bad when I'm not around and she doesn't mean to hurt me but she promises she's done hurting me. I tell her I love her and I'll move past this but if she wants we don't have to say we're exclusive anymore and can just see whether we want this to be a thing when we get to meet. She assures me she wants to do this.
A week goes by and she's going away with her family and her ex-boyfriend for the weekend. This has been planned for a while, I tell her I trust her and go have fun. After the weekend she tells me she is sorry but things turned sexual with her and her ex. I tell her while my feelings are hurt I love her and I think we jumped into things too quickly that I'll always be here for her but let's go back to just being friends and if things happen down the road then that's fine.
Now we're talking as friends and she still says that when she has dealt with her mental health and covid is over she really wants a relationship with me. However since our brief time being "exclusive" she has told me there are several other people she's been talking to online that she's considered a relationship with and a couple guys in her area that she has a crush on but just wants to stay friends with.
I tell her that I feel like I'm in a competition with several other people and that we're all just lined up waiting for her approval. She assures me that she loves me more than the rest but she just can't have a relationship in her life until she really loves herself. Also, after I told her I think we moved to fast and it started coming out about all the other people she was talking to one night I was frustrated I joined an online dating service.
I started talking to a couple people just about school, work, pets and stuff. I felt really bad about it because she has been open about telling me she's talking to people so I tell her how I've been talking to this girl about school and stuff and she gets really upset saying why don't I just go marry her then, hangs up the phone, I call back and she apologizes saying I can do whatever I want she doesn't want to be controlling. I feel gross for what I've done and remove the app and the people I started talking to.
I do have trust issues from a past relationship. I started to act jealous asking what is going on with these other people she's pissed that I am having doubts in our relationship because I know how she loves me. I apologize saying I'll try to be more secure about our relationship and not question her on what's going on with these other people.
I'm hoping for advice in controlling my jealousy and be more secure so I can continue to be a place of solace and peace of mind for her without letting me emotions get the better of me.
tl;dr The girl I've been talking to says she wants to be with me but also is interested in several other guys. I'm really interested in this person but don't want to ruin things by being a jealous jerk.
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2020.11.06 12:02 apunktrashpanda Is anyone else’s social life kinda non existent? How do you cope with it.

I often dwell on how isolated I’ve been, and I dwell on it more when I even attempt to make friends and it always fails. My entire life became isolated by the time I was about 14, I didn’t really leave my house much and I had only some long distance friends (which mostly didn’t go well for me watch who you talk to online btw.) I was also being abused by my parents at the time and developed psychosis and further developed my depression and anxiety(my depression and anxiety were already present and I was harboring severe symptoms of psychosis even before I was isolated.) When I was around 18 with the help of therapy and having some transportation as I still couldn’t drive(still can’t.) I decided to try and make friends through conventions as I had and still am really into cosplay. I made 3-5 actual friends and was actually communicating and seeing them. But it was only a few months in that they completely dropped me. Left me out of things and didn’t text me as often as they used to. When I finally confronted them all for answers the summary was my mental illness was to much for them. Which hit me but I can’t say it was so bad cause I had lost multiple friends in the past due to my depression and I was over all bullied a lot and not very liked when I was in school , but it still hurt. I was wondering why I could never keep friends. I spoke to my therapist and tried online friend apps (like dating apps but for finding friends.) As well as support groups and whatnot but nothing worked. I also found out apparently my social skills never fully mentally developed and due to trauma amongst other things my social skills can be either very awkward or very over bearing in some way other than having to do with mental health. I’m 19 now and haven’t had any real lasting friendships since I was 14, and the friendships I did have with people prior most were toxic (made me change myself so I could fit in and even poked fun towards my depression a lot and I didn’t realize till later on.)
Does anyone else struggle with this? Are there ways you cope or find friends? Cause I’ve tried mainly keeping myself busy at this point with house work and gaming and self care and I even have a service animal in training(for actual mental and emotional care as my psychosis often affects me physically and it somewhat helps to have her around as a companion.) and just ignoring it. But when your looking to game with someone to call or text and talk about your day and nobody answers. It hits you sometimes.
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2020.11.01 06:20 Complex_River Collecting. a debt we know nothing about

So my mom was sent to collections by security system company for just about $1000. The debt collection company tracked down her home address and sent her notification of the debt.
The problem is that they are saying they provided alarm services 2009 to 2010 at a business the I owned and never put her name on anything for, ever. Plus I had a self monitored system installed at both locations for the entire 15 years I owned the business (business sold 5 years ago). Never once did I get anything in the mail from them at my business address about this matter. I would've noticed something like this.
They are not able to provide any kind of agreement or contract that we signed other than something that is "electronically signed" but has no date, no service date, price or other info on it, it's just like a form that spells out what services they would've provided had we had service with them. It has her name and my business name and address on it and the "signature" and that's it.
They basically said we cant prove that we didn't have the service when we told them we didn't even know who they are. It's a smaller company not a big national chain.
This is now on my moms credit report, she's terminally ill and I dont them trying to collect from her estate when she passes (credit score impact doesnt really matter).
What's the best way to approach this? Calling the debt collection company is going nowhere. Would disputing it on her credit report work?
I have no proof I was self monitored because I just bought and installed the system myself. I have no clue how they got my moms name on something associated with my old business. Especially since I had a different last name at the time, how would they even know we are related? Nor do I understand how they could get so far as to apply it to her credit report. I literally have no clue what this is about nor any idea how to argue it because it's so random. I do know I have no clue how to prove I didn't have their service even though I know I didn't.
It's been in collections for probably a year now so I'm sure theyve tacked on fees and stuff so it's likely gone way up. It's been a busy year and we just kind of blew off dealing with it. We get notices every so often and have just ignored them.
Also, I called the alarm company directly and was told thta once an account is sent to collections they will no longer discuss it and everything must be communicated thru the debt collection agency. Does this even make sense? At first I thought we were being scammed and half expected the company's phone number to be. a dead end since they dont have an online presence.
Would it work to just write to the credit bureaus and explain the situation attatch the documentation and contract? sHould I write a letter to the debt collector to make it official that I dont want to pay this debt because I didn't get services? Where should I start?
I am in nevada, the business and alarm company was in Arizona and the debt collector is in California (I think, I'd have to check to be sure).
Edit: I should also mention that my mom kept a close eye on her credit reports and this never showed up on anything till around the time we got the notice. Shed checked her credit maybe. a year before and there was nothing, then we checked it gaain to see if it was on there and it sure enough was.
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2020.10.30 16:51 stake_pool Brief Comments on Goguen: Q4 2020, Q1 2021, utility, Marlowe, DSL, Glow, Plutus, IELE, smart contracts, thanksgiving to you, sidechains and Hydra, Goguen rollout and additions to product update

Smart contracts (origins in 80s, 90s vs. 2013 ETH and 2020s Cardano)
We had a pretty interesting product update. We laughed, we cried, we all learned a little bit. Two and a half hours lots of stuff and I hope this gives you guys a good window into all the things that are happening. There's an enormous amount of complexity in Cardano and Goguen is no different. In fact that one slide showing all the interlocking dependencies and the moving pieces for it and just the sheer volume of things that are going on is, is an indication of not only the quality of the team but also the commercial reality of being a smart contract platform. In 2020 when I co-founded Ethereum our reference material was paper. We looked at things that Nick Szabo and people from the 1990s and 1980s wrote about and whether you were a Ricardian contract fan or you had programmed in Eiffel or you understood things like FpML basically it was an open field which gave us kind of a freedom to just do whatever we wanted to do but it also didn't give us a commercial reality of who's going to buy it? Who's going to use it? What do you need to do? The expectations in 2020 are vastly different from the expectations in 2013 and the reality is that there are massive deficits with Ethereum as designed today which is why Tezos exists and Algorand exists and why ETH2 is being constructed . It's why there are so many different players from Polkadot and others on down who have deep and detailed opinions about the things we need to do. If the ICO revolution hadn't happened, there was no notion of an ERC20 token and we were in a just different world.
We didn't have DeFi, any of these things and now in 2020 if you are to be competitive and build great things and actually invite real use and utility at a scale of millions and billions of people or government or Fortune 500 you need to have real good answers about a lot of different threats and things. For example, Marlowe, what it does is it leverages 20 years of history from domain experts like Willi Brammertz and over 30 years of history in domain-specific language (DSL) design from professor Simon Thompson and his team and it puts them together. It says for the first time ever we're going to have semantical clarity between the entrepreneur, the developer, the writer and the financial services infrastructure whether that be the banker, the insurance agent, the exchange, whoever that might be. Up until the totality of human history till today we have never had that semantical clarity. All four of those actors speak different languages and what we're doing with Marlowe as a DSL is an example of how you can unify and create a common language and experience between all of them today.
Marlowe, DSL, Glow, Plutus, IELE
Right now, you guys can go to the Marlowe playground and you can start using it and start building things and start having that semantical clarity and work with us and over a period of six months or so that will continue to evolve. Templates will evolve, applications will be constructed and those applications will work their way into Cardano applications and eventually they'll become cross-platform and work on things like (Hyperledger) fabric and other such things as we see industry and commercial adoption but it requires a starting point and Marlowe has evolved over a four year period through the hard labors of so many people to actually give us a great starting point. You can visually look at contracts and talk about their design. You can write them in JavaScript, you can write them in the Marlowe programming language. There's a Haskell side to things and you can see the power of this approach because of its design. You can prove things are correct, you can use theory that has existed for over 40 years like SAT solvers and reachability to actually show that you're not going to have a parity bug and that's just one example of one DSL of which many more will come. The point of DSLs is to give clarity to people in the industry. For example if we get into the health business and we start talking about medical records that will become a DSL to broker their movement and that same clarity and semantical unification will occur between doctors and hospitals, patients, governments, regulators and business professionals and they will now have a common language. So, Marlowe is an entry point and it's an example of how to build a DSL and evolve a DSL and bring the right people to the table.
When we look to things like Glow, from MuKn, this is an example of a team that's highly motivated and intrinsically across blockchain. When we look to the future and we say what happens when Bitcoin gets smart contracts? What happens when ETH2 comes out? What happens when people want to build cross-blockchain applications? Wouldn't it be nice to have a unification language and that's what Glow is basically all about. By strategic investments in that ecosystem, what Glow does for us is it ensures that we won't be left behind that Cardano has that and all Cardano infrastructure can benefit from that and Glow in turn will benefit from its embedding in our ecosystem. More users, more technology and ultimately because Cardano's the best. If you deploy in that direction it's the best experience. When you look to Plutus, Plutus is the unification language, it's the conductor of the orchestra and it pulls all of these things together and there were a lot of design requirements with Plutus that were quite hard from a theory viewpoint. We really cared a lot about resource determinism. We wanted to make sure that it was always predictable or at least as predictable as it can be to know how much it costs to do things because at the end of the day this is not a science experiment. These are not toys back in 2013. We had the luxury with Ethereum of just seeing what happened and the market makes strategic investments and they have to know how much their operating cost is going to be for their business model. We designed Plutus so that it would be one of the best programming languages on a long arc agenda of being a very practical on and off chain language to unify all the Cardano ecosystem. There are many objects in the ecosystem to operate, manipulate, instruments of value like native assets, identity, smart contracts onto themselves, DAOs, off chain infrastructure and you need a conductor that's capable of living in between all of these things and you need certainty that the code you're writing is going to work.
This is why we based it on an ecosystem that has 35 years of history and we as a company have invested millions of dollars in that ecosystem to modernize it and bring it into the 21st century especially for things like Windows support and working with partners like Tweag WebAssembly support, working on projects like compilation to JavaScript so that we can share that's there and our commitment is going to continue beyond that we are a founding member of the Haskell foundation working with Simon Peyton Jones and we're going to ensure that Haskell has compilation to ARM and that all of the technology that's required to keep that language competitive and actually make the language even more competitive will happen. It's very nice that Plutus is deeply ingrained in that ecosystem and that makes it a perfect conductor language. In the coming months we're going to talk a lot more about our relationship decay in IELE. If you live in the imperative object-oriented world and you want to do things a bit differently than the way things are done in the Haskell functional world then it makes sense to have an option that has the same principles as us which is why we reached out to Grigore years ago and established a commercial relationship with him. It's been the privilege of my career finding a way to resurrect that relationship so in the coming months we're going to talk a lot about how IELE fits into the Cardano ecosystem and the value it's going to bring in addition to the value of Marlowe, Glow, and Plutus.
Native assets
One of the single most important things about all of this is the native asset standard. One of the things we did not anticipate when we created Ethereum is just how pervasive the user's ability to issue an asset would be. We figured this would be an important thing, it's why we put it on a T-shirt back in the Miami conference in January of 2014 and we realized that from the color coin's project in the master coin project and one of the most important things is that we have the ability to issue not just a utility token but non-functional assets, security tokens and a litany of other instruments that hold value. Some ephemeral, some permanent, some with flexible monetary policies, some with fixed monetary policies, some from a central issuer, some from a decentralized issuer, some managed by a foundation, some managed by the community, some managed by fixed code that's immutable and the point of the native asset standard in the ERC20 converter is to establish a co-evolution of the technology and the commercialization of the technology. What we've been doing with ERC20 converter is using that as a way to create a conversation with those who want to migrate or build on Cardano and thinking through how are we going to create practical standards with our native assets. We already have enormous advantages with this standard over Ethereum. In particular the fact that your assets you issue on Cardano are treated the way that ADA is treated whereas in Ethereum you're a second-class citizen or ETH is treated differently from smart contracts. This first class citizen approach means that your assets will have the same governance access layer, to portfolio access and infrastructure that ADA itself has. Easier listing experiences, easier time with hardware wallets, easier time with wallet software. In general better user experience, faster transactions, lower transaction costs and then eventually for higher value tokens even the possibility of paying transaction fees over the long term in the native asset itself as if you were your own cryptocurrency.
Goguen rollout
You just simply cannot do this with the design of Ethereum and Ethereum 2. It's a huge advantage we have in our ecosystem and it's one that will become more pervasive over time now Goguen has already started. As a launch agenda the very first update to enable some Goguen era functionality was the metadata standard which meant that you could go from just moving ADA around to actually a whole litany of applications in the identity space and in the metadata space some of which we're aggressively negotiating on in commercial deals which we'll announce at a later date. The rollout of Goguen in terms of the system as we mentioned in the presentation will be principally done for the first iteration over a series of three hard fork combinator (HFC) events. The first of which is beginning this year in November December time frame and that's going to lay a lot of the foundations that will enable us to get to the second hard fork combinator event which will occur in Q1 of next year and we'll announce that specific date likely at the next product update and then the third one will happen shortly thereafter. They have to be spaced this way because it's just simply too cumbersome on our developers and also our partners such as wallet infrastructure and exchanges to try to do too much too quickly and furthermore there's an enormous amount of work as you've noticed on that slide to roll out Goguen. You have to do two things at once, you have to deploy the infrastructure but then you also have to populate the infrastructure and what's nice about the way that we've done things as you now see with the Marlowe playground the population of that infrastructure is occurring now today and with the ERC20 converter and the mint test net that's coming.
That's going to occur in November which means that that gives people time to start building and playing on our ecosystem in a safe sandbox so that when they deploy it to the mainnet they do it right the first time and they don't make an existential failure as we have seen with the DeFi space because at the end of the day once you go live you have a huge adversarial surface and everybody in the world is going to try to break the things you've done. It's very important that you do it right which means that you need time as a commercial partner and an application deployer to do it correctly. Parts of Goguen are indeed shipping this year, some have already shipped and we'll have another HFC event at the end of next month or early in December and throughout the first quarter of next year and likely the second quarter will complete the other two HFC events which will roll out full support for native assets, extended UTxO, the Plutus infrastructure and the Marlowe infrastructure. In the meantime we're also working on strategies about how we can ensure best integration of Glow and IELE into the Cardano ecosystem and as you've noticed there are three parallel teams that are working very hard. The Shelley team continues to upgrade the Shelley experience. Just today we've received a lot of concerns over for example the state pool ranking in Daedalus. Let me be very clear about something. There's no problem with the ranking software, the problem is the k parameter. It needs to be increased and the fact that things are getting grayed out is an indication that the ranking parameter is actually working right for the first time. So, k needs to go up but there are consequences of that and we need to improve the software to reflect those consequences but it is my goal to get k to 1000 before ideally d hits 0 because we really do want to have over a 1000 well-functioning stake pools but by no means is that the end of the story.
Improvements + project Catalyst
We need partial delegation and delegation portfolios. We need means for stake pool operators to communicate effectively and efficiently with those who delegate to them. We need improvements in SMASH. We need an identity center, we need a litany of improvements to Daedalus itself. Right now, today, there are more than four companies working full-time at doing just these things in addition to the Goguen updates that are occurring right now. That research thread and that development thread will continue. We've already seen seven CIPs including CIPs related to the reward function. We take them very seriously, we review them and there's enormous amount of discussion about how to create a fair and balanced system and we appreciate this feedback. It's a process and we ask for patience and we also remind people that we launched Shelley just at the end of July and despite that the ecosystem has more than doubled in size and it's been growing at an incredible pace and it's only going to continue and we're only going to see our best days ahead of us. Good things are coming down the pipe and it's becoming a much more holistic ecosystem from in performance improvements, to usability improvements, to better overall software for everyone.
There's no greater example of that than what we've been able to accomplish in the last three months for the exchanges in general. We're really proud of what we've done with the Adrestia stack and we're really proud of working with great partners like Binance and Bittrex throughout the last few months and we've had some certain challenges there but as a result of overcoming those challenges we have left behind an incredible enterprise grade listening experience that continues to get faster, continues to get higher quality and is secure and reliable 24 hours a day, seven days a week and we'll continue investing heavily to ensure that that only gets better for all of those partners whether they be an external wallet or their infrastructure like an exchange operator. We've had a lot of wins also on the governance side with the Voltaire Catalyst project. We have seen huge wins in participation going from small focus groups to now over 3500 people every single day coming into cardano.ideascale.com competing for 2250000 worth of ADA with fund2. That's just the beginning and every six to eight weeks that's going to increase in scale, in terms of the money and people, the quality... When we ask what is our developer acquisition strategy that's a major part of it because people know that there's money to be made in building on Cardano and that you have the right incentives to go realize your dreams and add value so just as these frameworks like the Marlowe playground and the Plutus playground and other such things like Glow come online and IELE come online the ability to build will be matched by the ability to discuss what to build and fund? What to build through a community driven process that includes greater and greater inclusivity. For example the next fund will include a voting center built right into Daedalus in addition to the cell phone application that we've already launched to vote and we will continue refining that experience relentlessly that's one of our fastest moving teams and I will remind you we are doing this in parallel to the Shelley workstream and the Goguen workstream that we showed you guys today. Finally there's Basho, not the next hard fork combinator event but HFC#3 which we anticipate in Q1 2021.
Sidechains, Hydra
I would like to include a sidechain protocol that allows the movement of value between independent systems through some form of blocking mechanism. We are currently examining and designing a protocol that we think fits very nicely into the way that our system works with mild modifications to the ledger rules. If that and should this be successful then that helps with one of the pillars of Basho interoperability and then the other pillar is scalability. Rob is hard at work working with technical architects and scaling up a team to start de-risking the Hydra protocol and others are hard at work evolving the science behind the Hydra protocol. We have seen great progress on all fronts to de-risk Hydra's roll-out and what's so beautiful about Hydra is it is our belief that the majority if not all of Hydra can be implemented in Plutus. As Plutus rolls out we have a natural constituency to run this infrastructure. The stake pool operators and we have a natural way without an HFC event or special accommodation of rolling out Hydra.
It's not really needed at this level of scaling capacity. We have an enormous throughput already 10 times greater than Ethereum as it is today and room to make it a hundred times greater than what Ethereum is today without Hydra. However as we de-risk this infrastructure solidify the protocols and get out all the kinks. What's so beautiful about it is that we will be able to when the time comes the community can roll out multiple implementations of Hydra so that there is diversity and there will be a natural group of actors to run those channels as we have seen for example with the Bolt spec and the Lightning ecosystem on Bitcoin. The contrasting difference between Lightning and Bitcoin and Hydra and extended UTxO and Cardano is we designed Cardano for Hydra.
Bitcoin was not designed for Lightning and as a consequence it's always more difficult for them to try to make meaningful progress whereas us there's no friction in that relationship. It just fits very nicely through so the roadmap is coming together and Cardano 2020 has definitely started to evolve into quite a mature ecosystem and what's really exciting is we're going from an ecosystem of potential to one of reality and instead of asking what could we do we're showing people what has been done and people are actually doing things every day.
Our commercial team is inundated with requests for coordination and cooperation and deployment. I get numerous emails every single day, well intended to very serious about people wanting to build on the platform and we're really excited about that. We're going to keep this steady systematic relentless march as you saw with the enormity of the news today. It's business as usual and it'll be exactly the same in November only there'll be more and every month. The velocity increases, we burn down the remaining story points to get these things done and things are happening very quickly and we just keep releasing and releasing and releasing and it's a very different time than it was even six months ago.
Community rules
What's so reassuring is we continue to have the best community in all the cryptocurrency space. It's the final point but it's one that I'm most proud of. You see people get to decide where they want to live, what infrastructure they want to deploy, on who they want to work with and when you have a welcoming warm and friendly community that is constructive and productive and their job is to help you get to where you need to go you want to work with those people. When you have a destructive or toxic community that's exclusive hierarchical and not invented here in their mentality people don't want to work with that community. Money can't buy that. I don't care if you have a bank account with four billion dollars or you're a central bank. You can't buy character and you can't buy culture, you have to make it and you have to earn it and if we've accomplished anything over these last five years from the 90 papers now and the million plus lines of code and the incredible releases that have happened and continue to happen we accomplished the greatest thing of all: we built a community to rival that of bitcoin's. I believe with that community we can realize the dream in the coming years of Cardano becoming the financial operating system.
For those who don't have one and giving open prayer and free economic identity to those who need it I am astounded by just how easy it is to roll these things out. They're super hard and complex under the hood but they just feel right and fit right and all the pieces are starting to come together in just the right way and I'm astounded by the fact that when we roll them out community members are there to receive them and take them to the next level.
Thank you all for attending the product update at the end of the month. This was a real good one, just as good as the Shelley one and we are now in the Goguen era with the first HFC event coming in the end of November and we're going to keep pushing them out. Every single one of them will add more capabilities and I encourage everyone to check out the Marlowe playground start building with it. Today things are happening really fast when the mint comes online at the end of November. Start playing around with that, start talking about the multi-token standard. If you're interested in a project our commercial division divisions always' open and you're going to see more and more progress from all entities in this ecosystem and some potentially major announcements before you can think it. Thanks guys it was a good day and thanks to the entire team that made all this happen I'm real proud of all of you.
Video: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=l5wADba8kCw
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2020.10.29 12:37 kalyanivishwakarma Digital Remittance Market Size 2020 Analysis By Business Share, Strategies, Investment Opportunities, Revenue Expectation, Future Trends, Prominent Players, Covid-19 Impact Analysis and Forecast till 2025

Digital Remittance Market Size 2020 Analysis By Business Share, Strategies, Investment Opportunities, Revenue Expectation, Future Trends, Prominent Players, Covid-19 Impact Analysis and Forecast till 2025
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Global “Digital Remittance Market Report has been formulated with in-depth insights and thorough analysis of the industry. Leading players of the global Digital Remittance market are analyzed based on their product portfolio, revenue, market share, and strategies taking into account new launches, partnerships, mergers or acquisitions, and geographical expansion. In addition, the report offers the market size for historical, current, and future years from the demand and supply side of the global Digital Remittance market.
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The Major Players in the Digital Remittance Market report include:
  • Western Union (WU)
  • Ria Financial Services
  • PayPal/Xoom
  • TransferWise
  • WorldRemit
  • MoneyGram
  • Remitly
  • Azimo
  • TransferGo
  • InstaReM
  • TNG Wallet
  • Coins.ph
  • Toast
  • OrbitRemit
  • Smiles/Digital Wallet Corporation
  • Avenues India Pvt Ltd
  • FlyRemit
  • WeChat Payment
  • Ant Financial/Alipay
This research report categorizes the global Digital Remittance market size by top players/brands, region, type, and end-user. This report also studies the global Digital Remittance market status, competition landscape, market share, growth rate, future trends, market drivers, opportunities and challenges, sales channels, and distributors. This report studies the global market size of Digital Remittance in key regions like North America, Europe, Asia Pacific, Central & South America, and Middle East & Africa, focuses on the consumption of Digital Remittance in these regions.
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Scope of the Digital Remittance Market Report:
  • This report studies the Digital Remittance market. Digital Remittance is an online service that lets people send money to friends and family living abroad, using a computer, smartphone or tablet.
  • Migrant labor workforce is the most important drivers to promote the global development. In future, the blockchain technology will exert far-reaching influence on the remittance market. Most of traditional bank, fintech and other financial firms have researched and tested the blockchain technology used in remittance volume. In the same time, some companies like Ant Financial/Alipay, Coins.ph, Auxesis, Bitspark, Rebit and Cashaa, have introduced their products in remittance.
  • In 2018, the global Digital Remittance market size was 1540 million USD and it is expected to reach 8590 million USD by the end of 2025, with a CAGR of 24.0% during 2019-2025.
On the basis of product, this report displays the production, revenue, price, market share, and growth rate of each type, primarily split into:
  • Banks Digital Remittance
  • Digital Money Transfer Operators
On the basis of the end users/applications, this report focuses on the status and outlook for major applications/end users, consumption (sales), market share and growth rate for each application, including:
  • Migrant Labor Workforce
  • Study Abroad and Travel
  • Small Businesses
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The study objectives of this report are:
  • To study and analyze the global Digital Remittance market size (value & volume) by company, key regions, products and end-user, breakdown data from 2014 to 2018, and forecast to 2025.
  • To understand the structure of the Digital Remittance market by identifying its various sub-segments.
  • To share detailed information about the key factors influencing the growth of the market (growth potential, opportunities, drivers, industry-specific challenges, and risks).
  • Focuses on the key global Digital Remittance companies, to define, describe and analyze the sales volume, value, Digital Remittance market share, market competition landscape, and recent development.
  • To project the value and sales volume of Digital Remittance submarkets, with respect to key regions.
  • To analyze competitive developments such as expansions, agreements, new product launches, and acquisitions in the market.
Global Digital Remittance Market providing information such as company profiles, product picture, and specification, capacity, production, price, cost, revenue, and contact information. Upstream raw materials and instrumentation and downstream demand analysis are additionally dispensed. The Global Digital Remittance market development trends and marketing channels are analyzed. Finally, the feasibility of the latest investment projects is assessed and overall analysis conclusions offered.
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Some of the key questions answered in this report:
  • What will the market growth rate, growth momentum or acceleration market carries during the forecast period?
  • Which are the key factors driving the Digital Remittance market?
  • What was the size of the emerging Digital Remittance market by value in 2019?
  • What will be the size of the emerging Digital Remittance market in 2025?
  • Which region is expected to hold the highest market share in the Digital Remittance market?
  • What trends, challenges, and barriers will impact the development and sizing of the Global Digital Remittance market?
  • What are the sales volume, revenue, and price analysis of top manufacturers of the Digital Remittance market?
Years considered to estimate the market size of Digital Remittance are as follows:
  • History Year: 2014-2018
  • Base Year: 2018
  • Estimated Year: 2019
  • Digital Remittance Market Forecast Year 2019 to 2025
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With tables and figures helping analyze worldwide Global Digital Remittance market trends, this research provides key statistics on the state of the industry and is a valuable source of guidance and direction for companies and individuals interested in the market.
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1 Study Coverage 1.1 Digital Remittance Product 1.2 Key Market Segments in This Study 1.3 Key Manufacturers Covered 1.4 Market by Type 1.4.1 Global Digital Remittance Market Size Growth Rate by Type 1.4.2 Type 1 1.4.3 Type 2 1.4.4 Type 3 1.4.5 Others 1.5 Market by Application 1.5.1 Global Digital Remittance Market Size Growth Rate by Application 1.5.2 Application 1 1.5.3 Application 2 1.6 Study Objectives 1.7 Years Considered
2 Executive Summary 2.1 Global Digital Remittance Market Size 2.1.1 Global Digital Remittance Revenue 2014-2025 2.1.2 Global Digital Remittance Production 2014-2025 2.2 Digital Remittance Market Growth Rate (CAGR) 2019-2025 2.3 Analysis of Competitive Landscape 2.3.1 Manufacturers Market Concentration Ratio (CR5 and HHI) 2.3.2 Key Digital Remittance Manufacturers 2.3.2.1 Digital Remittance Manufacturing Base Distribution, Headquarters 2.3.2.2 Manufacturers Digital Remittance Product Offered 2.3.2.3 Date of Manufacturers Enter into Digital Remittance Market 2.4 Key Trends for Digital Remittance Markets & Products
3 Market Size by Manufacturers 3.1 Digital Remittance Production by Manufacturers 3.1.1 Digital Remittance Production by Manufacturers 3.1.2 Digital Remittance Production Market Share by Manufacturers 3.2 Digital Remittance Revenue by Manufacturers 3.2.1 Digital Remittance Revenue by Manufacturers (2014-2019) 3.2.2 Digital Remittance Revenue Share by Manufacturers (2014-2019) 3.3 Digital Remittance Price by Manufacturers 3.4 Mergers & Acquisitions, Expansion Plans
4 Digital Remittance Production by Regions 5 Digital Remittance Consumption by Regions 5.1 Global Digital Remittance Consumption by Regions 5.2 North America 5.3 Europe 5.4 Asia Pacific 5.5 Central & South America 5.6 Middle East and Africa
6 Market Size by Type 7 Market Size by Application
8 Manufacturers Profiles 8.1 Company Profile 1 8.1.1 Company Profile 1 Company Details 8.1.2 Company Overview 8.1.3 Company Profile 1 Digital Remittance Production Revenue and Gross Margin (2014-2019) 8.1.4 Company Profile 1 Digital Remittance Product Description 8.1.5 Company Profile 1 Recent Development
8.2 Company Profile 2 8.2.1 Company Profile 2 Company Details 8.2.2 Company Overview 8.2.3 Company Profile 2 Digital Remittance Production Revenue and Gross Margin (2014-2019) 8.2.4 Company Profile 2 Digital Remittance Product Description 8.2.5 Company Profile 2 Recent Development
8.3 Company Profile 2 8.3.1 Company Profile 2 Company Details 8.3.2 Company Overview 8.3.3 Company Profile 2 Digital Remittance Production Revenue and Gross Margin (2014-2019) 8.3.4 Company Profile 2 Digital Remittance Product Description 8.3.5 Company Profile 2 Recent Development …………………………………………… 11 Value Chain and Sales Channels Analysis 11.1 Value Chain Analysis 11.2 Sales Channels Analysis 11.2.1 Digital Remittance Sales Channels 11.2.2 Digital Remittance Distributors 11.3 Digital Remittance Customers
12 Market Opportunities & Challenges, Risks and Influences Factors Analysis 12.1 Market Opportunities and Drivers 12.2 Market Challenges 12.3 Market Risks/Restraints
13 Key Findings in the Global Digital Remittance Study Continue……………..
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2020.10.28 23:17 u-turnshe I rewrote this for anybody who has the time and the heart to help GIVE ADVICE TO my daughter with this unnecessary situation when it comes to fighting their DVfather abusive Court matter

Their father recently worked for the local internet company and decided to spy on me. He has admitted it openly. I don't have perfect evidence but enough harassing and threatening text messages stating he knows everything and he doesn't care. He made comments that only you would know if you had read all my emails. I lost a lot of evidence after, I lost the online accounts. I could not seem to share any data from Mobile to computer and it was impossible to connect to any printers. I went to a few stores hoping that I could print off from Dropbox or an email but I realized that their security system was not having it and I was possibly risking their printers.
He later quit the internet company to work for the electric company and a little for Microsoft .
Once he spied on me long enough that he felt he had enough dirt on me. Enough to blackmail me to raise my child support to a unaffordable an unreasonable amount. When I already paid 100% for the children and paid a good amount of child support every month to him when I had them 40% of the time . I could not afford to pay it.
Which then gave him more reasons to be more agressive and threatening towards children and I. His famous lines were, You don't pay you don't see them! So I give him whatever I could afford at that moment on top of everything else. So they could be their mother and grandparents in peace and a moment without fear of their father. He decided to kidnap my younger one during the summer right before I was going to take her on her summer vacation with a girlfriend and brother. I would have always had her that summer month. I knew she was going to be forced to stay in a basement while everybody had fun and even worse he would take the phone from the children even if I purchase and financially supplied it. My children have been going through domestic violence mentally and somewhat physically their entire life.
The day of the trial hearing, I had denial of service attack. Which is where I could not get Wi-Fi nor data on mobile. That I have always paid for.
Which made it so my alarm didn't go off and I was late for trail hearing! The judge said we are going to get a guardian of alliance to see if I go to jail for all the ridiculous untruthful contempt hearings we had for a stretch of 8 months. We never even had a parenting plan. The judge insisted in courts insisted we did.
The GAL said the children would be safe with me if I was more stable. got the children need to spend more time with me which surprised me because she was not nice to me in the beginning she had her mind made up about me but she could see that the children and I were very close. She recommended that the children live with my parents because I removed around too much. I was unsure why she said that but when you search me and do a background check it says online it I have about 7 more addresses than I actually never lived at. She basically stated everything I had been trying to prove to the courts was true! She stated multiple times that our kids were not safe with him and his wife. Why would they go out of their way to hire one if they weren't going to listen to her?
My son , 17 yrs, even went to court and filed for two restraining orders & provided proof of physical abuse and he to was denied. The judge did not seem to feel as if there was any abuse .
I received a call from my children's father right before our trial. I was hoping you wanted to discuss the children. Or even better call his son that he had been neglecting for 6 months. He refused to go back to his house. After he was physical attacked his father and wife. After picking up his phone call I noticed that he wasn't actually on the line and from the receiving end I could hear loud sounds of screeching computers. Similar to a fax machine nose. I that something bad might have happened because I know the type of person he is. I'm sure what to do, I just moved on.
I would like to make this shorter than it needs to be so I don't bore anybody who is still reading thank you.
Shortly after that I lost all my online accounts and had a brute Force attack.
My last pass and keeper did not help me either because I couldn't reach them. Or because they chose not to help me. I did notice the last time I was able to access my password manager that some of my accounts were changed. My passwords had turned into my social security number. Which I would never do! So my identity, and any form of privacy,and all my digital work, art and memories are gone. my whole digital Life. I worked online so I could be closer and home with my children. I truly loved it. So that was the issue for me I lost my online business and all my inventory I had already shipped off to the warehouses.
My son who is in high school lost a lot of his hard work and the Mac, I recently purchased for.
I could not access our router majority of the time. while my internet company, where he used to work decided to lie and not help me and said there's no such thing as a network hack.
I could not use my cellular data or Wi-Fi for 2 months. then it was just periodically sometimes I could connect sometimes I could not to my electronics. I lived in a very large home at the time. Majority of the family and roommates still could use the internet on some of their devices. I was the target the victim of this new attack.
I was panicking trying to reach my customers, the company that I subcontracted for but unfortunately I was redirected to spammers every time!
I ended up having to use all of my financial savings to pay rent and buy more mobile devices a new computer and any type of internet security I could possibly fine in a very small town. I could not buy anything else online I had too many online fraud charges that I was continuously fighting at the time. I could not use the vpns I always would get a server error and the antiviruses somehow were rerouted and I would continuously be locked out.
The new electronics I bought would be compromised and controlled within minutes to a day or two. thanks to the smart technology, Internet of things, and local routers . My family can't even reach out for help. With their hack devices. Some of my family members realized that their computer was compromised and replaced it but still too confused to recognize the problems. Internet services with the same local internet company I did. They are constantly having slow connections being overcharged, and additional charges like voice over IP .
I've purchased at least 10 phones in the last year. My cell phone companies either have no clue or ignored me or treatme as If I was a terrorist, who was just begging to get help controlling my data and my children's baby photos.
I've gone through over a hundred new emails . Since I kept losing access to them. Even though I had the password written down in front of me!! I had DNS poisoning so majority of the websites were outdated with viruses. redirected into a html script. I still can't seem to navigate online at all without getting a server error sometimes I can't even access Court forms. My mobile server which unfortunately is not the server that I paid for. Can't always find Wacourt.gov & washingtonhelp.org
I can't seem to talk to a lawyer that I've been approved for multiple times through the Northwest Justice project. For my mobile phone will consistently hang up. I can't call the non emergency 911. My emails don't go through or usually blocked by lost email services and always somehow blacklisted! The websites I visit seem to be cloned in insecure. My JavaScript would not give me access to majority of the security settings in all my browsers. There's always new extensions and apps and open source licenses for untrustworthy certificates being downloaded especially when I have to go back to that community to see my daughter for the courts have just changed things once again. In the past i cannot turn on or off family sharing when I didn't even have a family connected to that mobile device. Can't turn off USB tethering and Google pay and apple wallets have multiple transactions, not by me. PayPal is somehow connected to a new phone number of mine by an email that's similar to my name but it's not mine. I cannot turn on or off these settings for they are lightened out and unavailable for my electronic device. Sim card & ip always changed.
5000 $ in back child support when the courts knew that I could not afford to pay it and when I tried to fight it they would raise my pay and lower his it was not based off the Washington State child support worksheet. 6000$ in international charges hit my credit report along with new phone numbers, Nick names emails and home addresses. I Cant reach for help with the credit unions like Equifax. When my device have so much static white nose and then lose connection. If I try to connect my email account to a computer. It will say I need a physical key to access it. as if I set it up myself. when every computer I own now Is broke or has locked me out.
I gave up but was sad because I could not keep tabs or communicate with my children. unless I borrowed a phone. They mapped out my family and contacts so if I were to borrow a phone and try to reach out for help I usually reached spam or foreign hotline or got disconnected.
Then the locals were acting strange. Like sitting outside our house taking photos of us. Items were stolen off our property. When we were out of town. Then the landlord had strange men over pretending to fix things that didn't need to be fixed, installing pipes underground , laying down new soil& having some Wi-Fi farming company working in our yard at 5:00 a.m. I also notice a few times the electric companies employee's were messing with our power boxes, in the middle of the night . Then My my photos came out extremely bright. Almost as if there was someone photoshopping lightning in the background that's how bad it was it gets worse are our family videos look like we lived in a microwave oven.
I know it's very strange! I do have evidence. After I moved out I went to a place that was even closer to my children's father not by choice but because this experience made me semi homeless.
If I would get a new router for that home. my children's father would come over take the phone he had purchased my daughter when he started taking me Superior Court. For a parenting plan we never had! Anyways he demanded her phone said he needed to put some new passwords in it within hours of the router change. When I would purposely break the router his electric company would show up before the internet cable company would. Not surprised to see them across the street fixing the power lines.
I bought our daughter a new phone for when she comes to my new home. He reports to the courts that I stole it from her and won't let her have it back when she never wanted it for he didn't provide data. Every time he's upset he turns around and puts another restraining order on me and our daughter. she gets only 5 gb and ends up with no data within a couple days and has to use Wi-Fi all the time. I did not have Wi-Fi so why not buy her another phone when she's in my new home.
Going a few months back,
Apple finally told me they couldn't help me with the iPhone because it was a government issue. I thought that was hilarious for I didn't do anything wrong unless the person who was using my accounts did. I figured it would pass I mean if you're under an investigation. it would only be for a few months right ? Not two years ! well nothing happened I mean there was no reason for anything to happen. I noticed that the police were driving by the old house a lot. Then I thought maybe it must have been my roommate they might be after. Then why am I the one who lost everything and is dealing with network abuse. My roommate was in a bad guy he did have a bit of a criminal history but nothing considered to be violent maybe just a couple drunken stupid events.
Then during the process of moving my children and roommates out of the house.while driving my car mysteriously blew up because of some electrical issue. Luckily the children were not in the car. There were no warnings & no issues with the car. It took the fire department about two minutes to find me but it was totaled. I could not afford to fix it or have a mechanic look at that time. Then somebody I did not know had it towed and I lost it.
the next house that I temporary was staying at. I was in the router settings I could not seem to get in there very often for the site would never load. I saw it was being port forwarding to a local Bitcoin mining pool!! Before I could screenshot it. I received another server error .
He continues to harass me and threaten me or he knows everything we do in our own privacy, our own bedrooms, where we're going, who we're going with, how much money says he's recording everything. It seems to know everything before I can even share it with a girlfriend.
Now He's throwing everything against me in The family Court and continues to commit perjury while I have proved him wrong multiple times but still aren't getting the protection and respect in this local small town courtroom! I have currently moved to Spokane Washington to get away from this! I do the traveling for the judge says that until I mental health diagnosis hair follicle test I am not allowed to take my daughter from to Spokane Washington. he gave me a month's time and then he says he's going to take all rights away ! Till then he is Requiring me to stay with my children at my parents home. When she is Sun's 18 now. She almost fully grown she is going to be 15 a week. Can't she have a say in who she feels safe enough to live with? that is fine I will do anything for my daughter even though it's pretty unfair that I have to pay for it all myself when they know I have no job or I've been constantly fighting this battle and keeping a phone that will keep a safe connection. when him and his wife both have huge histories of assault and domestic violence and drug charges I have no criminal history no drug history . I need some sort of help so he can't keep destroying every electronics. after calling my daughter when I do get a new phone number I start l receiving spam and scripts over SMS and once I go to my parents more and more viruses are downloaded. Why are we being dragged into this non-stop I want to be able to get a job and move forward not sit here and fight their viruses then more court dates with continuous false claims Non-Stop petti drama!
I've been told multiple times by a few computer companies and files that I have some sort of invisible beacon. How ?
The Seattle times paper has reported that the local electric company and crypto miners are being punished for unauthorized usage of other families in the small town electricity for maximum power leaving us in an unsafe situation to build more cryptocurrency .
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2020.10.28 23:15 u-turnshe Family law IT criminals

Their father recently worked for the local internet company and decided to spy on me. He has admitted it openly. I don't have perfect evidence but enough harassing and threatening text messages stating he knows everything and he doesn't care. He made comments that only you would know if you had read all my emails. I lost a lot of evidence after, I lost the online accounts. I could not seem to share any data from Mobile to computer and it was impossible to connect to any printers. I went to a few stores hoping that I could print off from Dropbox or an email but I realized that their security system was not having it and I was possibly risking their printers.
He later quit the internet company to work for the electric company and a little for Microsoft .
Once he spied on me long enough that he felt he had enough dirt on me. Enough to blackmail me to raise my child support to a unaffordable an unreasonable amount. When I already paid 100% for the children and paid a good amount of child support every month to him when I had them 40% of the time . I could not afford to pay it.
Which then gave him more reasons to be more agressive and threatening towards children and I. His famous lines were, You don't pay you don't see them! So I give him whatever I could afford at that moment on top of everything else. So they could be their mother and grandparents in peace and a moment without fear of their father. He decided to kidnap my younger one during the summer right before I was going to take her on her summer vacation with a girlfriend and brother. I would have always had her that summer month. I knew she was going to be forced to stay in a basement while everybody had fun and even worse he would take the phone from the children even if I purchase and financially supplied it. My children have been going through domestic violence mentally and somewhat physically their entire life.
The day of the trial hearing, I had denial of service attack. Which is where I could not get Wi-Fi nor data on mobile. That I have always paid for.
Which made it so my alarm didn't go off and I was late for trail hearing! The judge said we are going to get a guardian of alliance to see if I go to jail for all the ridiculous untruthful contempt hearings we had for a stretch of 8 months. We never even had a parenting plan. The judge insisted in courts insisted we did.
The GAL said the children would be safe with me if I was more stable. got the children need to spend more time with me which surprised me because she was not nice to me in the beginning she had her mind made up about me but she could see that the children and I were very close. She recommended that the children live with my parents because I removed around too much. I was unsure why she said that but when you search me and do a background check it says online it I have about 7 more addresses than I actually never lived at. She basically stated everything I had been trying to prove to the courts was true! She stated multiple times that our kids were not safe with him and his wife. Why would they go out of their way to hire one if they weren't going to listen to her?
My son , 17 yrs, even went to court and filed for two restraining orders & provided proof of physical abuse and he to was denied. The judge did not seem to feel as if there was any abuse .
I received a call from my children's father right before our trial. I was hoping you wanted to discuss the children. Or even better call his son that he had been neglecting for 6 months. He refused to go back to his house. After he was physical attacked his father and wife. After picking up his phone call I noticed that he wasn't actually on the line and from the receiving end I could hear loud sounds of screeching computers. Similar to a fax machine nose. I that something bad might have happened because I know the type of person he is. I'm sure what to do, I just moved on.
I would like to make this shorter than it needs to be so I don't bore anybody who is still reading thank you.
Shortly after that I lost all my online accounts and had a brute Force attack.
My last pass and keeper did not help me either because I couldn't reach them. Or because they chose not to help me. I did notice the last time I was able to access my password manager that some of my accounts were changed. My passwords had turned into my social security number. Which I would never do! So my identity, and any form of privacy,and all my digital work, art and memories are gone. my whole digital Life. I worked online so I could be closer and home with my children. I truly loved it. So that was the issue for me I lost my online business and all my inventory I had already shipped off to the warehouses.
My son who is in high school lost a lot of his hard work and the Mac, I recently purchased for.
I could not access our router majority of the time. while my internet company, where he used to work decided to lie and not help me and said there's no such thing as a network hack.
I could not use my cellular data or Wi-Fi for 2 months. then it was just periodically sometimes I could connect sometimes I could not to my electronics. I lived in a very large home at the time. Majority of the family and roommates still could use the internet on some of their devices. I was the target the victim of this new attack.
I was panicking trying to reach my customers, the company that I subcontracted for but unfortunately I was redirected to spammers every time!
I ended up having to use all of my financial savings to pay rent and buy more mobile devices a new computer and any type of internet security I could possibly fine in a very small town. I could not buy anything else online I had too many online fraud charges that I was continuously fighting at the time. I could not use the vpns I always would get a server error and the antiviruses somehow were rerouted and I would continuously be locked out.
The new electronics I bought would be compromised and controlled within minutes to a day or two. thanks to the smart technology, Internet of things, and local routers . My family can't even reach out for help. With their hack devices. Some of my family members realized that their computer was compromised and replaced it but still too confused to recognize the problems. Internet services with the same local internet company I did. They are constantly having slow connections being overcharged, and additional charges like voice over IP .
I've purchased at least 10 phones in the last year. My cell phone companies either have no clue or ignored me or treatme as If I was a terrorist, who was just begging to get help controlling my data and my children's baby photos.
I've gone through over a hundred new emails . Since I kept losing access to them. Even though I had the password written down in front of me!! I had DNS poisoning so majority of the websites were outdated with viruses. redirected into a html script. I still can't seem to navigate online at all without getting a server error sometimes I can't even access Court forms. My mobile server which unfortunately is not the server that I paid for. Can't always find Wacourt.gov & washingtonhelp.org
I can't seem to talk to a lawyer that I've been approved for multiple times through the Northwest Justice project. For my mobile phone will consistently hang up. I can't call the non emergency 911. My emails don't go through or usually blocked by lost email services and always somehow blacklisted! The websites I visit seem to be cloned in insecure. My JavaScript would not give me access to majority of the security settings in all my browsers. There's always new extensions and apps and open source licenses for untrustworthy certificates being downloaded especially when I have to go back to that community to see my daughter for the courts have just changed things once again. In the past i cannot turn on or off family sharing when I didn't even have a family connected to that mobile device. Can't turn off USB tethering and Google pay and apple wallets have multiple transactions, not by me. PayPal is somehow connected to a new phone number of mine by an email that's similar to my name but it's not mine. I cannot turn on or off these settings for they are lightened out and unavailable for my electronic device. Sim card & ip always changed.
5000 $ in back child support when the courts knew that I could not afford to pay it and when I tried to fight it they would raise my pay and lower his it was not based off the Washington State child support worksheet. 6000$ in international charges hit my credit report along with new phone numbers, Nick names emails and home addresses. I Cant reach for help with the credit unions like Equifax. When my device have so much static white nose and then lose connection. If I try to connect my email account to a computer. It will say I need a physical key to access it. as if I set it up myself. when every computer I own now Is broke or has locked me out.
I gave up but was sad because I could not keep tabs or communicate with my children. unless I borrowed a phone. They mapped out my family and contacts so if I were to borrow a phone and try to reach out for help I usually reached spam or foreign hotline or got disconnected.
Then the locals were acting strange. Like sitting outside our house taking photos of us. Items were stolen off our property. When we were out of town. Then the landlord had strange men over pretending to fix things that didn't need to be fixed, installing pipes underground , laying down new soil& having some Wi-Fi farming company working in our yard at 5:00 a.m. I also notice a few times the electric companies employee's were messing with our power boxes, in the middle of the night . Then My my photos came out extremely bright. Almost as if there was someone photoshopping lightning in the background that's how bad it was it gets worse are our family videos look like we lived in a microwave oven.
I know it's very strange! I do have evidence. After I moved out I went to a place that was even closer to my children's father not by choice but because this experience made me semi homeless.
If I would get a new router for that home. my children's father would come over take the phone he had purchased my daughter when he started taking me Superior Court. For a parenting plan we never had! Anyways he demanded her phone said he needed to put some new passwords in it within hours of the router change. When I would purposely break the router his electric company would show up before the internet cable company would. Not surprised to see them across the street fixing the power lines.
I bought our daughter a new phone for when she comes to my new home. He reports to the courts that I stole it from her and won't let her have it back when she never wanted it for he didn't provide data. Every time he's upset he turns around and puts another restraining order on me and our daughter. she gets only 5 gb and ends up with no data within a couple days and has to use Wi-Fi all the time. I did not have Wi-Fi so why not buy her another phone when she's in my new home.
Going a few months back,
Apple finally told me they couldn't help me with the iPhone because it was a government issue. I thought that was hilarious for I didn't do anything wrong unless the person who was using my accounts did. I figured it would pass I mean if you're under an investigation. it would only be for a few months right ? Not two years ! well nothing happened I mean there was no reason for anything to happen. I noticed that the police were driving by the old house a lot. Then I thought maybe it must have been my roommate they might be after. Then why am I the one who lost everything and is dealing with network abuse. My roommate was in a bad guy he did have a bit of a criminal history but nothing considered to be violent maybe just a couple drunken stupid events.
Then during the process of moving my children and roommates out of the house.while driving my car mysteriously blew up because of some electrical issue. Luckily the children were not in the car. There were no warnings & no issues with the car. It took the fire department about two minutes to find me but it was totaled. I could not afford to fix it or have a mechanic look at that time. Then somebody I did not know had it towed and I lost it.
the next house that I temporary was staying at. I was in the router settings I could not seem to get in there very often for the site would never load. I saw it was being port forwarding to a local Bitcoin mining pool!! Before I could screenshot it. I received another server error .
He continues to harass me and threaten me or he knows everything we do in our own privacy, our own bedrooms, where we're going, who we're going with, how much money says he's recording everything. It seems to know everything before I can even share it with a girlfriend.
Now He's throwing everything against me in The family Court and continues to commit perjury while I have proved him wrong multiple times but still aren't getting the protection and respect in this local small town courtroom! I have currently moved to Spokane Washington to get away from this! I do the traveling for the judge says that until I mental health diagnosis hair follicle test I am not allowed to take my daughter from to Spokane Washington. he gave me a month's time and then he says he's going to take all rights away ! Till then he is Requiring me to stay with my children at my parents home. When she is Sun's 18 now. She almost fully grown she is going to be 15 a week. Can't she have a say in who she feels safe enough to live with? that is fine I will do anything for my daughter even though it's pretty unfair that I have to pay for it all myself when they know I have no job or I've been constantly fighting this battle and keeping a phone that will keep a safe connection. when him and his wife both have huge histories of assault and domestic violence and drug charges I have no criminal history no drug history . I need some sort of help so he can't keep destroying every electronics. after calling my daughter when I do get a new phone number I start l receiving spam and scripts over SMS and once I go to my parents more and more viruses are downloaded. Why are we being dragged into this non-stop I want to be able to get a job and move forward not sit here and fight their viruses then more court dates with continuous false claims Non-Stop petti drama!
I've been told multiple times by a few computer companies and files that I have some sort of invisible beacon. How ?
The Seattle times paper has reported that the local electric company and crypto miners are being punished for unauthorized usage of other families in the small town electricity for maximum power leaving us in an unsafe situation to build more cryptocurrency .
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2020.10.27 20:36 _Hamzah I have been given a task to implement some functionality in JS. I've described the task in the description since it's kind of long. I don't even know how to begin, so I was hoping that I could get some help here.

The task I have been assigned is that I have to go through a resume (text document format), and extract the skills along with the number of years of experience of each particular skill. So if the resume contains the text that I've pasted at the end, then the code will have to extract all the tech skills mentioned, (like C#, JavaScript, AJAX, ASP.NET etc) and has to calculate the number of years the candidate has worked on each tech skill and return the result. I was able to extract skills using RegEx and matching each word in the resume to a skills database. But I have no clue on how to determine the number of years of experience of each skill. I believe that I might have to resort to Natural Language Processing, but that's just a hunch. I honestly think this task is a bit too advanced, but this is my first programming job and I've only recently started out so I don't wanna mess up. Please excuse me if I made any mistakes while writing the question. Any help will be greatly appreciated.
Confidential,Atlanta July 2011- Till Date Sr. C# Developer Project: Order Processing
Description: Designed and developed At&T Order Processing System. The three-tier architecture of the registration system uses several building blocks from the Microsoft .NET platform, including: ASP.NET, IIS 5.0 for the presentation tier, C# and XML Web services as the middle tier for validation and security, ADO.NET to provide consistent, high-performance access to all kinds of data, Visual Studio .NET for the development environment
Responsibilities:
Environment: Net Frame Work3.0, C#,ASP.NET 3.0,SQL Server 2005,AJAX, TFS, MS Access Web Services, IIS 5.0.
Confidential,Camden, NJ Jan 2010 -June 2011 Dot Net Developer Therapist Locator Directory
Responsibilities:

Environment:.Net 3.5, ASP.Net,ADO.Net, C#.Net,Microsoft IIS 6.0, CSS, AJAX Extensions, Web services, XML, T-SQL , WCF ,Sql server 2008
Confidential,Hyderabad, India, Feb 2007 – Dec 2009 C# Developer
Responsibilities:

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2020.10.24 10:28 BlueDaisy62 Am I The Asshole Roommate? (My roommate from hell) (Grab some snackkies this is kinda long)

Back in July of 2019 I started a new job. I was in a long term 4 year relationship, and living with his mom (we had our own house but moved in with his mom to 1)save money to buy a house but 2) his dad and little sister needed a place to live so we let them have that place)
when I started this new job i met a group of people who basically helped me realize how toxic of a relationship I was in and the potential happiness I could have else wise. I also met another guy who, in all honesty, I fell in love with.
No I didn't cheat or anything, but I knew for a long time that I wasn't in love with the high-school sweetheart and that there were so many warning signs that I should have left sooner (he constantly screamed at me and made me feel worthless, I felt like I was there just for him to say he had a girlfriend and have sex, he gamed 24/7 and constantly chose his games over hanging out with me or even taking care of his health)
these friends (let's call them friend A and friend B) gave me what I needed most in that time: a place to stay if I broke up with him.
I took that opportunity and broke it off, staying at their place for a day and then deciding with them the next day that I would sublet from them, splitting ret and utilities 5 ways. (It was a three bedroom house, and it was friend As sister and her that lived there, but her mom eventually moved in and for some reason friend A and friend B decided even though they were not living there , they would continue to pay 2/5 of rent to try to help out their family.)
I had 4 dogs and 3 guinea pigs with my ex. I only took the two dogs that were technically mine.
Moving in i didn't have a bed or any furniture besides my desk pc and TV, they allowed me to use their bed. The people in the house didn't particularly like dogs either so they would be stuck in my room 24/7 unless I took them out for walks. ( the back yard was occupied by friend As dog and wasn't dog friendly so I couldn't put my pups out there) I work 12 hour night shifts 3-4 days a week.
Anyways, because it wasn't my bed and the housemates didn't like dogs, I ultimately had to crate my pups 24/7 except for 2 walks a day (one before I left for work one after I got home.) This was an extremely stressful situation for the dogs and ultimately they started having explosive and bloody diarrhea 2-3 times a day.
The only solution I could think of at the time was to keep them in the bathroom some days so that I didn't have to keep steam cleaning the carpet around the crate as well as easier clean up (the bathroom was tile) and not having to get even more shit on the carpet having to take them to the bathtub. (I have a bordercollie and a jack chi)
This living situation was pretty shit and was even worse for friend As mom who had to share a bathroom with me and would often express how upset she was about the dogs being in there. I made a decision in January 2020 to try to find better living arrangements, as nice as it was having lower rent costs.
Which brings me to the actual "Am I the shit roomate?" Story.
There was another coworker who I ultimately befriended. Looking back it was a fairly toxic friendship. I made a few bad jokes/said things that she took out of context and we joked about, but then she would introduce me to new coworkers like that: " oh hey! Have you met (me) yet? Yeah she called me a *****" it eventually got to the point where people i hadn't even met would say oh right! You're the one who said "xyz"
Anyhow, I had vented alot of my frustrations to her about my ex and current living situation. we became, in her mind, best friends; and in a way I just accepted that. Though I don't think I ever felt as strongly connected to her as she did to me. I was really more interested in being best friends with Friend A because they had helped me so much and I was so grateful, but I appreciated this coworker and trusted her (well just call her roomie for the sake of later)
Roomie was new here and moved from Guam to live with her sister about 2 years back. During DecembeJanuary she started fighting with said sister and was looking for a place to move to.
I originally denied the idea because I was content with living at Friend A and Friend Bs place, however when the dogs conditions started to degrade I knew I needed to find a new place asap, so I ultimately said sure, let's find a place together.
We found a nice 2 bed 2 bath apartment, 3rd floor. My only condition with living with her was that the dogs were allowed to be out and about and not locked in the cage. She agreed 100%. We moved in end of February 2020 signing a 14 month lease.
For the first few weeks I kept the dogs caged while I was at work because they were having issues pooping and peeing on the carpet. I invested in one of those porch potties so that they could just go out and do their business on the porch instead of having to hold it for 12 hours and three flights of stairs. (This would ultimately become a problem)
Move in costs were a bit higher than I had excepted and I hadn't exactly been planning on moving out so soon so I only had maybe 2 weeks worth of paychecks saved and my tax return. I used all of it on downpayment and first months rent and still ended up owing her around 600$ which she said was fine and to just pay her back when I could, but not to worry.
We moved in and the first... I'm going to say 2 weeks, were okay. We didn't have any furniture but I did have a lot of kitchen stuff from when I used to live with my ex, so we bought bean bags and used those for a bit. Eventually within those two weeks we went to the store together and found a papasan chair that we both liked, I ended up buying it. We also found a nice little TV stand, I also bought.
About a month in is when COVID 19 lock downs started to get really serious in our state. The guy that I had fallen in love with before when I was with my ex? Me and him started dating about a week after that break up (thats a whole other story tbh) so at this point we where together for about 4 months.
Originally he had been coming over in the first week or two and then leaving to go home, were he lived with his grandparents, after I fell asleep. He didn't have a key so roomie got mad when the door was left unlocked all night.
And here is our first issue.
Me, I thought okay well I guess let's get him a key? So I went and made a spare and was honestly kind of nervous because this would be a big step in our relationship, so I told roomie on the way to work that I had made a spare and was thinking about giving it to my bf.
She flipped out and said I had gone behind her back and that I should have talked to her about it, but ultimately that yeah it was fine to give him the key. I waited a week to give it to him after that.
About a week after that is when COVID really kicked in and to make a long story short, he asked if he could temporarily move in with me because his grandparents where high risk. I said of course, and we brought it up to roomie.
She was upset at first (honestly I don't remeber why) but said yeah it was fine and she thought it was really sweet that he was looking out for his grandparents.
Let me go back real quick and fill yall in on one or two other back storys that I promise will make sense and this whole thing will come full circle.
Roomie and the bf are no strangers. We are all coworkers, tho bf does work in a different department (he also gets payed more which will come into play later) and we all would go out drinking and partying together.
In January, we threw a group bday party because we had so many friends with January bdays including, me and the bf. To make a long story short, it was a weird time of our relationship. We were technically "open" and we got very drunk that night. Leading to a 5 way make out session between me, roomie, bf, friend A and friend B.
(We had also joked quite often with friend A and friend B about orgies etc) when the party started dying down (this was when I lived at friend As house and the party was held there) me and bf headed back to my room. We came back out and invited roomie in if she wanted (wink winks included) and instead got her and another guy.
To skip the details. Basically the guy was not welcome but we were too drunk to really say or realize how uncomfortable we were with the situation. And ultimately the next day after discussing it, both me, bf, and roomie were very uncomfortable with the whole situation and bf honestly felt as tho he'd been violated if not raped
This night would also prove to cause more than one issue. But basically you can see now that roomie, me and bf all knew eachother fairly well and it wasn't like I was just letting a random guy move in.
Back to the roomie situation. We agreed when he moved in that because he would be sharing a room with me he wouldn't pay rent and instead would buy all the groceries. (Which would usually be around 2-300$ a week in all honesty but would eventually calm down to about 300 every two weeks unless we ate something special)
We very soon found that me and roomie had very different living styles. I didn't mind if dishes were left for a day or two or if the house was a little messy as long as it got cleaned on the weekends.
She however likes things spotless and always clean. She did express this once or twice, saying hey just make sure ur cleaning it up within the day. So I said okay and did just that. Then it went on to hey can you make sure they are cleaned up right after you are done. So I said sure, and did that.
Then months pass and she kept getting more and more bitter toward us and more angry, stomping around the apartment and completely avoiding us. Within these months a few other things happened.
One, I got very drunk, black out drunk, with her and bf one night and accidently told bf roomie had been fucking someone (she had just told him she sucked him off so my drunk mind was like oh shes being open about it I can talk about her and her fuck buddy in front of him now) then later that same night, I called her boy toy and told him he should fuck her basically.
I was drunk out of my mind, and he realized that. However she appearently did not. I truly barely remember the actual events of that call.
What I do remeber is that i was so so happy with my bf and that I thought the boy toy could be that to her and just wanted her to feel the way I did. I thought she was holding herself back.
Obviously I went about it in the compete wrong way and in her words made her feel like a hoe and that she couldn't get someone without being whored out. I apologized profusely and constantly but I don't think she ever actually forgave me.
During the beginning weeks of us moving in she had also invited me out to drink and go bar hopping and the group of friends we had, invited me to a housewarming party, however I was so tired of drinking and partying and was dead broke and still owed her $600 and it was also around the time bf had gotten violated and was therefore distancing himself from the group, so i said no. i didnt want to go out.
She begged me and often asked why bf didn't want to hang out too and I eventually told her its because he's trying to distance and doesn't want to be around the group rn, and that I personally just didn't want to go out. I wanted to stay in with the dogs. She offered to buy me drinks etc and I just didn't want to. I was tired and just wanted to relax. (Again I promise this plays in)
Jumping back to living in the apt with roomie, when covid seemed to be letting up we decided to have a small get together to catch up and celebrate missed bdays. Immediately after inviting, Friend A (who I used to be closest with) just said No. It was really weird and kinda abrasive and my first clue that something was wrong.
So I said okay what if we do another date, most people agreed and we ended up having it the day before the original day.
For this party let me add that roomie didn't offer to help clean before or after, or even offer to buy any of the party supplies or food or even just 20$.
In fact she did the exact opposite and asked us to by specific stuff so she could try certain shots and if we could buy a beer pong table. We couldn't afford the beer pong but we did our best and got 2 cheap tables from ikea instead.
She would later confess that when we asked her if the original date of the party was a good date, that she lied and said yeah when she knew 100% that it wasn't and that they had already had another party planned. But that "we ended up having back to back partys and both were successful so it worked out" (we were not told or invited or even aware of the other party. And at that time we didn't even realize we were appearantly on bad terms with everyone?)
There was also the time where she came home high asf (which she did often tbh). Me and bf were sitting on the couch watching TV and she comes in and starts asking us questions.
Basically all I really remember from that is having this conversation: she was pissed off because I had told friend A and friend B what had happened the night of the January bdays, and that we had made her feel bad for telling her best friend (which btw, just happened to be bfs boss.)
(To this day she doesn't understand why telling bfs boss that her, me, bf, and another coworker directly in bfs area, that bf felt he'd gotten raped, was a BAD idea and something we didn't want)
but at the same time she kept saying she wasn't mad and actually glad she had someone to talk to about it all now an that she just didn't understand why she couldn't tell her BFF (bfs boss)
Then there was a singular moment where I said something like "well when we were friends" or something that implied we arnt friends with the coworker friend group anymore i guess, she said "Oooooohhh so your not friends with them anymore??"
And I was like no that's not what I said. I just mean we havnt hung out for a while or talked because of the whole covid thing. And she kinda just took that whole "oh you're not friends any more hmm?" And questioned more and then went back in her room leaving me heated asf.
Fast forward maybe 4 months or so, and finally we have the outburst.
She sends this extremely long text about how we need to keep the house cleaner and wipe everything down after cooking more and that she thinks bf should pay rent and be put on the lease.
That's shes been forced to keep stuff in her own closet because the pantry is too full and that we need to keep the fridge more organized so she can put stuff in there.
That she didn't feel comfortable being out in the common areas because it was practically our place and because we occasionally would walk around "half naked" and that she felt like she was walking on egg shells and had anxiety about being out in the common areas. (Ditto)
and that she wanted documentation stating that the porch stains were my fault and that she had nothing to do with them
(that relates back to the fact that I had invested in the porch potty, and while the dogs would poop on it, they often would pee on the door or barriers instead and since we lived on the 3rd floor when they peed on the barriers it once accidently got down to the neighbors porch which we immediately where like omg im so sorry and started just walking them more, but the stains from them peeing next to the door were there since I hadn't gotten around to cleaning it (it was like a 105 degree summer and honestly just didn't cross my mind all that often once we started walking them) )
Originally bf was just going to move out. I didn't want him on the lease especially if it were to extend our stay, but we understood from a legal stand point she was probably right.
I also didn't agree with him paying rent. Or at least not the full 3 way split. She has the master bedroom with a private bathroom, walk in closet and other storage/pantry closet.
We share the smaller bedroom with a extremely small closet and do have our own bathroom however its far from private.
Yes she claims that if she has guests over they would use her bathroom but at the same time even if the stuff we keep in the bathroom is private, its not the same.
For example the times shes caught us "half naked" around the house look like this: bf with a robe on or pants and no shirt, me with a big shirt on and underwear. Once maybe with a blanket or towel around myself trying to get to the bathroom to clean up after sex.
And honestly I didn't see the problem with it with her given our history and that she's pretty much seen us both naked multiple times.
When she sent that text, I told her give us a few days to figure out our options. (Because bf wanted to move out) and she got pissed saying that it was always on my schedual and things always revolve around when I want to do things. I just didn't want to make any rash decisions and was trying to stay calm.
I'd never realized how upset she was at us because everytime we'd ask her if she was okay or whats up she said "its good" or "its fine" in a sing-song voice. I knew there was tension and I knew she was upset but not about what.
She was also the one who decided to stop using the groceries bf bought, which was his "rent" we often bought in bulk, causing the fridge and pantry to be pretty full, and the fee times we bought her specific stuff we knew she liked she didn't eat them and went to waste.
We would ask her what she wanted from the grocery store and she's say nothing. The only time we ever got upset (but never told her tbh) was that we used to also cook for her aswell, which was fine. But we made a really expensive dinner for our 6 month anniversary and she ended up eating all of it without even asking.
She also told me she thought I was jealous of her and that I thought she wanted my bf because whenever she was in the kitchen alone with him, id be in there too.
Honestly I laughed and told her God no, I didn't even realize I was doing that and that it was probably because 1)me and bf had just had a huge fight and I was being clingy in general and 2) I had hella anxiety when she was in there because I knew we had just cooked and were in the middle of eating and hadn't cleaned them yet, and I didn't want to put that all on him or have her chew him out.
Anyhow, i finally responded to her long text and told her I agreed with pretty much everything, that we would do better to leave her space and clean up and that all we asked of her was that she didn't use metal on our pots and was careful not to put rustable things in the dishwasher since we'd been having that problem with things like the can opener, certain knifes and baking sheets.
Also that I would clean the porch but not write her a note since there is a 500$ non refundable pet deposited anyhow and when the time came I would take ownership, plus the dogs are in my name.
I did tell her that we would agree to do a 40 30 30 split on rent, even 3 way on utilities, as we thought that was fair since she had the master and we shared a room. She didn't like that at all and said we should pay more because we used the common areas more and she didn't feel comfortable using them.
She proposed a 40 40 20, then realized that was the same as 40 30 30 (which its not really, we arnt joint income) and instead said she'd only agree to a 35 35 30.
I hated it i didn't even agree with the 40 30 30, I wanted to do a 45 27.5 27.5 (because according to online rent calculators that was considered fair given the living situation). But bf said he'd rather just take the loss and have us pay the extra x amount if it'll get her to leave us alone. So we agreed to that.
Real quick let me explain the furniture and why she perhaps feels like it's mostly our apartment. In the beginning we were constantly talking about how we wanted to furnish and design ideas.
We knew it would take a while but it was fun to plan. When we moved in, like I said, I owed her $600. I would still ask her if she liked this or that and she started to say "what, did you win the lottery" or "are you planning on winning the lottery?" In a smart ass kinda hostile tone. And I was like no I'm just curious if you liked this style that way when we can or if we find something on sale we don't just buy stuff the other person hates.
She proceeded to constantly ask me if I had gotten the 3k that my ex owed me (honestly even b4 we moved in together she constantly asked me if I got it) and when the stimulus checks got release would ask me about that too. Then started demanding I pay her back as soon as it seemed like I was in any way financially stable. I wasn't.
I was trying to balance making sure I had enough for rent and food and dog bills as well as trying to save to furnish the house a little bit (it was obvious she wasn't going to), and considering she said to take as long as I needed to pay her back I thought she would appreciate the fact I wanted to buy furniture and make it nice.
I ended up over draftng my account to pay her back but she was pissed because I took put the 14 months of renters insurance (like 8 or 9$ a month each) so that we didn't have to deal with it later and she decided to be petty and tell me I owed her back taxes for the last 3 months rent because she payed it (it was like 40$).
I ultimately furnished all of the common areas, bought us a couch a coffee table a bookshelf a giant gate so the dogs no longer had access to the carpeted area, everything. And I never ever once told her she couldn't use it.
In fact I often encouraged it and she'd claim she just preferred being in her room.
In that text she had also mentioned that the dogs had the whole dining area to themselves so that also made her uncomfortable (she also mentioned in person that my little dog should be in his cage all day because he peed on her door) keep in mind that I have fairly well behaved dogs and I pay a $60 pet rent everyone for them.
They don't bark unless there is someone at the door or kids running and screaming right outside it. We even sent the border collie to a board and train program to polish up his obedience and is CGC certified.
They don't chew. The worst they've done is had accidents in the house because they were either sick or I slept in and forgot to take them out.
Pretty much after that things were okay. We weren't friends and we weren't talking to eachother but we were civil.
Btw huge side note, she had admitted to venting to all our mutual friends and that she basically told them we were shit. Those friends no longer talk to us and avoid us like the plague when they see us at work.
One has even gone as far to tell a new coworker that he hates me. (I over heard him say it). Basically, that whole friend group that saved me from a toxic relationship and here the greatest? Disappeared without even questioning it or telling us what we did to upset them.
Anyways. Like I said things were okay for a month or 2, minus the fact that she had "stolen" all my friends. But I figure fuck it, they obviously didn't care enough about me to even ask for the other side of the story. That doesn't mean it didn't hurt though.
There was some aggravating parts. Remarks on her side concerning my personal life that I thought where inappropriately given our current state of things.
In that time we only really had one issue with her, and it was that she had ordered food on a work day and the delivery service knocked, causing the dogs to bark and us to get up, get fully dressed, and then try to go back to bed with only 1-2 hours left before we actually had to be up.
we told her when we woke up, hey please if u order on a work night just make sure they don't knock or that you ask them not to knock.
She said she told them to leave it at the door. She didn't know why they knocked. I told her you had to put in the notes to not knock, to which she responded that she felt like she was being attacked and that she did. I told her not trying to lecture or attack. Just tired and wanted to make sure that you had, that we understand its out of her control after that.
She then went on to say that we made noise on the weekends and were super loud when we were happy/drunk/being goofy, and i basically told her that she can make all the noise she wants on the weekends because we can sleep in, and that if she had an issue with how loud we are ever, to tell us.
She continued to say that she felt like things were delicate and that we were all trying too hard to act a way that used to come so naturally between us.
I told her I wasn't acting and I was just being me. That if my ignoring her at work and not asking her about her day bugged her im sorry but I'm not going to make small talk and that I didn't see the point in trying to small talk with someone who has clearly shown they no longer want to be friends. That she should just be herself and don't pretend or force something if it makes her uncomfortable, otherwise things will always be delicate..
She then switched her whole attitude saying that "i thought YOU said we weren't friends anymore" and that she was just being courteous and she's never been fake. And that since we arnt friends any more she has infinitely more patience for friends and therefore for none with us.
Which brings us to yesterday.
Yesterday was her last day of the current position she was in and was taking off x amount of time till she started her new position.
It also just happened that I had bought a Furbo the day before to help aid with my dogs training and to keep an eye on them while I was at work. It came and I told roomie about it and she said it was really cool and seemed really excited and interested about it. I then set it up.
The next day when we went to work, she stayed home because she would be starting a new position soon. She ended up texting that she didn't feel comfortable with it and because of body issues she would be turning it towards the wall and that me setting up the camera felt like when I had given bf the key without consulting her.
To which I reminded her that I had told her, I had only made it without telling her; that I would have made the key anyways in case one of us lost ours.
Likewise i told her I didn't feel the need to inform her about buying the Furbo because I would have bought it whether or not she agreed to put it up (it was on sale) further I told her I didn't install it till she gave me the okay at which point she said she never agreed, just said It was cool.
(She said it was awesome and "pretty dope" and had like 2 questions about it (the scope as well as how long it has been up, which like I told her it wasn't up until she said it was awesome) )
I stupidly decided to argue and get upset. She definitely caught me at a bad time. But basically I told her I understand why she wants to turn in away but that I was upset she said it was okay to put up and then the next day she wasn't okay with it. And that though I don't think she would but I couldn't help but have mama bear instincts kick in and think what if she wants to turn the camera away because she's hurting the dogs.
She's definitely expressed enough disdain for them and hates me and is mad at me enough.
She took that comment and ran with it. Saying she'd move out and that we made her feel like an ogre constantly and that she can never do anything right, that now she knows how I really see her. I told her to look at if from my perspective.
That she turned all my friends against me and was constantly complaining about things in the house and really that the biggest problem has come from her not saying her feelings and complaints for 4 months and holding it all in.
That I constantly felt anxiety talking to her and am constantly worried " great whats roomie upset about now"
That the one time we actually called her put for doing something we don't like (the door knocking while we where sleeping for work) she didn't just say sorry, i did put don't knock, but instead played the victim and said we were attacking and lecturing her..
She completely disagreed that she turned everyone against us and we had a whole argument about that. Ultimately she said she would stay quiet and stop bugging and that she wouldn't cause any more stress till April that we could keep the camera up and that she'd stay out of my way as much as possible.
That "people change..."
I ended it with no, I don't think we changed i think we just finally saw eachother for their flaws. I took the camera down as soon as I got home from work that night
Then this morning I woke up to
"Just noticed u wrote this but you're right after comparing my situation with those of Friend As mom, ur ex, his mother, and everyone else, I finally see u for who u truly are. U may not have changed but I have. Situations like this are supposed to do that in my opinion, force one to reflect, adapt, and grow."
I havnt responded.
In my opinion she has no right to compare herself. My ex and his mom were obviously pissed when I moved out because I dumped her son.
I had no issues living with them otherwise. Friend As mom, I understand her being upset because she didn't like dogs and my dogs made a mess because they were stressed, I did my best and it wasn't enough. I don't know what else I could have done and thats why i moved out asap.
She has been the absolute worst room mate and friend and I feel this could have all been solved if she just communicated better.
She's 31 years old. I'm 22.
Youd think at some point you learn to be the bigger person and grow up, like we have honestly so many times just to get her to shut up. I've asked her what I can do to make her more comfortable and she doesn't answer.
Truthfully I've given in to every request shes had, and I don't understand what I personally did to make her feel so much anxiety around me. It's her own fault for holding it in instead of just saying it.
There are countless things I did to try to make her happy and things she did that made me mad and that I just never said anything about (eating certain meals that were clearly ours, never taking out the trash and letting it overflow, only cleaning when she was pissed off at us after we had already cleaned, using the dishwasher as a drying rack
(we specifically bought her a dryer rack so she would stop doing this and she still does it. Whats even more infuriating is that she will open a clean dishwasher, not unload it, and then put her dishes in there to dry. Overlapping so it won't even dry well)
putting a lock on her door and locking it every time she leaves (honestly thats only infuriating because she did it before we even had huge fights and just shows how much she really trusted us) and honestly the list goes on.
The few times the dogs had accidents in the house, she would get home before us and send us a picture and I would just text back thanks well see it when we get there and clean it up. I could go on and on. And we never call her out on any of this because if we donwe are attacking her.)
I truely feel I'm being fairly nice and trying to see it from her perspective as much as possible. I realize I havnt been great but I just... aghh
Am I the asshole??? D:
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